Yep, we all deep down really do want jerks...we want to be called names, smacked around, cheated on. Ya know the stand being treated like shiit! It's soooo hot that way.

so now we are going from one extreme to the other...?
extremely nice to extremely shitty?

really,in my line of work,i meet quite a few people,who go thru this.
and,even when they leave,they somehow end up going back to the abuse.

which is why i wonder why some say they WANT a nice guy,then sit here and make fun of the nice guys.

for example,a few nice guys posted on the forums..after they were ridiculed,they left...never to be seen again.

what was their crime?
o yeah,they called themselves nice guys...how Dare they....

it kind of baffles me,this attitude towards people who state publicly that they are nice guys.
thats the only reason i posted here.
wasnt meant to offend anyone,just a desire to understand the logic.

not sure who said this,but

you must love yourself,before you can love another.

I said it Rob and it's called sarcasm, a joke..in keeping with the thread theme. I learned to love myself long ago and would never be with one who was not "nice" to me.

in keeping with the thread theme..a joke.
exactly!
that was my point.

didnt mean you personally Lady- ,i meant overall what the pattern is im seeing here on this site.

nice guys = a joke.

some of them dont see the sarcasm/puns/whatever.
they just see themselves being ridiculed.

why isnt there a bad guys joke thread...hrmm..
why isnt there a fishermans joke thread,or a nascar joke thread...
you following me here?

btw,im Happy to see that you are not one of the people who would stay in an abusive relationship..TG.

Edit:
as a test,i recently changed my entire profile and put on there that im a nice guy.
since then,not one nudge or email..None.
thus proving my point...rather unfortunately.

which is why i wonder why some say they WANT a nice guy,then sit here and make fun of the nice guys.

Same reason they say they want a smart guy (they don't) or a funny guy (they don't) or whatever. It looks good on the screen, even though it's not true.

How can you be so sure that all women don't want, funny, nice, smart...
is that to say we all want a lousy sense of humor, stupid and mean?

I love stupid men....

They are sooo much fun to be with..

They look at you with this "glazed look"

as you empty their wallet!

Just kidding!!

Oh my goodness. I see my thread is turning into a debate about the way people are treated or the stereotypes associated.

This thread was a joke to all the stereotypes. People are treated the way they allow themselves to be treated. And I was very clear from the onset that this thread was an attempt at humor to lighten our loads and make us laugh.

So laugh Dammit!

LOL... see you're awesome w/o even trying!

Every man is an ******* that only wants bewbs, and there are no nice guys because you only find jackasses.

Well, it's probably because women who say they want a "nice guy" actually want a jackass and you over look every nice guy you come across and put them in the "just friends" zone.

I guess there are some ups and downs about living with lesbians, they sat me down and explained how the typical woman's mind worked and to not believe a damned thing they said. Yeah, 2 women told me that.

Nice guy = jackass in woman speak
Male = *** hole in woman speak

Every man is an ******* that only wants bewbs, and there are no nice guys because you only find jackasses. Sounds familiar I bet.

DunScamMe, you summed up the impetus behind this thread perfectly. Both men and women have their own opinions about what they want. When they don't find it with a certain someone they provide their own spin on why not. I was a nice guy. Women want ********. blah blah blah.


Women want men. Not everyone wants the same thing. To each their own. Live, Love and Prosper.