I was wondering, Do Best friends make the Best Lovers?

being friends first is important i think yes..

I am sure of it :)

oooooh ya thay do lol

i would hope so for my sake

yeh I believe in the concept of friends before lovers. You're very
comfortable with the other person too

That what I'm saying Friends don't have too stress it, when making love
too the best friend... Because they care about each others feelings...

Yes they do... It is something about that connection. I know with my
own best guy friend... but the major thing is make sure that it doesn't
turn into "friends with benfits". He and I were the best of friends -
then it turned into something more - he wanted to put distance and I
wanted more - so I decided on friends with benefits... we made the
rules but somehow in the track of things he accused me of trying to make
him jealous when I wasn't... he cared and I cared... but in the end...
we haven't talked to each other in 6 weeks and I have no idea wha
happened. All I can say is the rules must've changed and it didn't on
my part.

No, I do not. Been there, done that. He ruined a 10 year friendship
thinking that he was in love with me. We were together for about 6
months before I had realized that I couldn't stand him as a lover. I
guess that I should have known better from his past relationships but, I
didn't think that he would be that way with me. And, when I tried to
get rid of him, it had gotten really ugly. He knew all of my friends
and family and would try to get them to talk to me so that he could get
me back. He played that game for about 4 months before I had moved and
told my family not to give him any information about me. I would not
recommend for anyone to go there with a good friend.

I'll take a side of friend and a side of lover. Oh and 25 pounds of
chocolate.

no, they don't.

there's no guarantee that just being my friend will also provide
aptitude for pleasing me.

I've been in both the "friendship/lover relationship" and the
"passionate relationship". I do honestly feel that you have to have the
friendship. The passion will dissipate; the friendship is the glue that
will hold you together.

I really do agree to you SEXYAZZKAY b/c it does ruin a lot of things.
As I wrote before even if I didn't clarify it completely - it does ruin
a friendship if things are not eye to eye or something becomes sour on
one end. I have not heard from my friend in 6 weeks and that really
does mean something to me even though we had these "rules"... it can
ruin a friendship if it is not on the same wavelength.

thats tuff, my wife and i were best buddys, 5 yrs got married it was
over in 2 yrs . i dont know the answer.?

Well "Caddie" have you sent your close friend a card and explain too him
that it takes 2 too make a mistake...
I think best friends Should stay best Friends... If you want a friend
with benefits, then it should be know right at thee begining....

Yes we knew it right from the beginning. We both made the rules and I
stuck with them... best friends will be the best lovers as long as it
is MUTUAL... We were mutual until the rules changed and I haven't heard
from him since. BUT MY PARENTS ARE THE BEST OF FRIENDS - MARRIED FOR 30
YEARS... I ONLY HOPE TO HAVE WHAT THEY HAVE... THEY ARE NOT ONLY LOVERS
BUT THERE IS AN INTIMACY MORE DEEPER THAN THAT.

Best lovers are also best friends.
Best friends are not necessarily best lovers!

yes yes yes the best

I totally agree with you s1owhand

Gwen & I were best friends long before lovers. Then lovers & married,
we let life get us to busy & taking eachother for granteed. Went thru
some very rough years, got help & found our friendship again. I think
we let the marriage license allow us to take eachother for granted, quit
EARNING the relationship. We were married, didn't have to work at it.
WRONG. Marriage means you need to work harder, not less. Taking
eachother for granted happens to easy, just sneaks in.

To the lady wondering what happened, ASK. Never let a question go
unasked. Our minds give us to many stories.