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Quietman_2009
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once when I dated a pregnant woman this is what came out
I'm as proud of her as if she were mine own |
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Aww, she's cute. Cute doggie too.
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Edited by
Quietman_2009
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She's a doll Robin...
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something about the kidney disease
all the males on my mom's side have kidney failure all three of my uncles who have it, none of em ever had kids. and me neither she is the closest I've ever had (with the exception now of papersmiles kids who I love to death. of whom we dont talk on the internet. safety safety safety) |
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something about the kidney disease all the males on my mom's side have kidney failure all three of my uncles who have it, none of em ever had kids. and me neither she is the closest I've ever had (with the exception now of papersmiles kids who I love to death. of whom we dont talk on the internet. safety safety safety) good idea. it annoys me when people plaster images of their kids all over the net, with no worry of perverts. better safe than sorry.
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Edited by
Quietman_2009
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Fri 02/12/10 10:46 PM
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yep between me and papersmile you'll NEVER see pictures of her kids on the internet
we don't even like to mention how many or their ages or definitly not their names |
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no no no. i'm saying i was telling her i was taking no chances in her trying to get me to sign then taking off and trying to make me pay for him.i know its a package deal and i do plan on helping with what little i can Again, best to check the Law in your state regarding responsibility of the child in case things don't work out. I know of men who weren't the father who were ordered to pay support. |
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Well this is really all yours......
Do ya mind it's not your child do ya mind another man will be involved( because of child) if he even is! Consider the woman deeply: what type of woman gets knocked up dates while she's preggo and if she's shtipping you~~personaly~~ no way!!!! But this is all your call. Take time to sit and think it out. Maybe let her have the babyand get her priorities in order? Jmo  Jmo
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yep between me and papersmile you'll NEVER see pictures of her kids on the internet we don't even like to mention how many or their ages or definitly not their names [/quote I'm glad to see. Other people feel like this my kids are off limits on the net!!! My grandson was born Xmas day but the family voted no pics on the net wanna see them? Come over. I'll bore you to death with home movies~photo albums etc. Lol |
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id have to put my name on the birth certificate and i told her i wasnt doing that because im not taking chances of having to pay child support. that was discussed within 4 dates?  Hummmm well in the first place to me if she is pregnant and your dating her then that is your business. What catches my eye is you say you've only had 4 dates and the issue of your name being put on the Birth Certificate has even been discussed.  I'm sorry but what I have read here really makes me shake my head  and wonder if you have any idea what your getting into? I have noticed myself that when questions of this nature come up it is due to the one asking has doubts themselves or they would not find the need for opinions of others. JMO But...........I think there is much more to this story then has been told come on 4 dates and all the stuff in this thread has been discussed already All I can say is keep your eyes wide open this is one time one should not jump in with both feet without a life jacket on...........
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Just a warning. If you two get past all and decide to live together or get married, you could become legally and financially liable for the kid even if it's not yours. Check the law in your state. Just sayin' and good luck. TRUE! |
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In some states, if you are with the woman and raising that child for a certain period of time (2 years I think and the biological father is out of the picture) they consider you the father and WILL make you financially responsible for the child. You really need to research this before you go any farther. Beware.
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Wouldn't you have to legally adopt him to be responsible for him?
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Wouldn't you have to legally adopt him to be responsible for him? Nope. In many states if you have assumed the responsibility as the father and you are there for the first 2 years of the child's life, you are the dad. I'm not sure of the exact wording and how it varies from state to state. But, you'd be crazy not to talk to a lawyer and find out exactly what can happen. |
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no no no. i'm saying i was telling her i was taking no chances in her trying to get me to sign then taking off and trying to make me pay for him.i know its a package deal and i do plan on helping with what little i can 
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legal this legal that
doesnt really matter if you bond with the kid if you are the male figure in his life then you are his dad. no matter what birth certificates or laws say |
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ya yellowrose im sure ill get attached to him i love babys. i have already offred helped with a few things and she keeps turning them down so im 90% sure shes not just trying to get me to buy her stuff for him |
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legal this legal that doesnt really matter if you bond with the kid if you are the male figure in his life then you are his dad. no matter what birth certificates or laws say But he's already stated that he doesn't want to be a father figure to this child so it matters a lot. |
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And he's just started dating this girl. What happens if it doesn't work out with her? This a bigger deal than it appears on the surface. The baby is an innocent that has no say in these choices the adults are making that will impact his/her life more than anyone's.
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