i have to say you
are you DEFFENTLY!!! one of a kind

I see no problem dating a pregnant girl


my second wife was pregnant when I met her. She was really drunk when we met and I kinda tore into her for being drunk and pregnant

several months later she came and found me out on the drag to show me the baby and that she was born just fine

I dunno how that turned into being married cause *I* was drunk at that time

but the baby grew up into a gorgeous woman that I am highly proud of and she still keeps in touch with me via facebook


just beware becoming the convenient plug in dad

ya yellowrose im sure ill get attached to him i love babys. i have already offred helped with a few things and she keeps turning them down so im 90% sure shes not just trying to get me to buy her stuff for him

I'm not saying there is anything wrong with it at all. Just telling you to keep it in mind.

Maybe keep it casual for a while???

Best of luck to you

you keep saying him(does she know she having a boy)
or are you just saying that

ya shes having a boy.shoulda proably cleared that up before i started just throwing him in ther lol

Haven't thought about it much...but my first thought is what yr doin' is very admirable....

It isn't really any different than being older and meeting someone with children. I'm old and jaded. Good luck my friend....

Me too!!! Thank God he's only 20...

also we both unlike most younger people have our lifes planed out im already attending a tech school and will most likely end up in the miltary and she was attending school till she got pregnant

I don't understand the question...or maybe I don't understand why it was asked...I don't know, I think I'm too logical for these kinds of things.

I wasn't asked to nor even a thought to do ANY signing for mine.
He was about one year old when I met her,,
But I went to an attorney and asked,,,so I LIED and said HE was my REAL CHILD,,as to change his name from her maiden name to mine.
HE had no father listed on his birth certificate.
Then, three years later, we divorced.
At that time my attorney asked me if I wanted to CHANGE that, then I wouldn't have to pay any child support on him,,just on the child WE HAD between us after we were married.
I said NO,,because he would then grow knowing HE HAD NO DAD to claim him...and he and our son would have to SHARE different last names.
Also a separating bond there,,as I grew through that fashion of sisters and brother. So he kept my name and I willingly paid the extra child support.
Then after two years, she granted my full custody of them both.
ITS ALL UP TO YOU man,,on how you feel about EVERYTHING.
You have a LONG TIME before her baby's NAME needs to be a focus of concern,,,MY QUESTION now would be WHY,,or why NOW is she even THINKING to have you sign ANYTHING?
THAT would worry me a bit,,in my thoughts ?
But I would not sign NOW,,and go slow,,,even if you both get married,,,the baby's NAME can STILL be done later..
So, see how she agrees or doesn't agree with you wanting to wait?
And personally,,,YOU have to LOVE the baby in order to say you LOVE HER.....Because Mother and child,,,STAND as a WHOLE...always.
If YOU except HER, you HAVE-TO also except her baby..
And IF your not sure right now,,,PLEASE,BE SURE, before you sign anything that obligates your income for the next eighteen year or more? Being a dad, to her baby, and for the baby..
Takes many years and love to have him grow into this world..
I never really loved my first wife like that of deep-love.
I fell more in-love with her baby, and me being his daddy, than I did of the love I felt for her...THATS WRONG,,,but I was 20 and
she was living badly and putting her son through hell doing that.
So it just SEEMED RIGHT,,at that time,wink,lol
I have no regrets.....
HE learned the TRUTH about me,,,when HE was 22.....
WERE GREAT with it,,,,,
I wish you great luck,,and a great date....

Date whomever you please and to hell with everyone else....

Again I commend you for what you are pondering. Ultimately the decision is yours and no others. If you stay then kudos. If you don't then the majority understands that as well. Good luck to you and what you shall decide. You are young, you do have your whole life ahead of you.

i have a question?
isent there a program down in your area
that helps with teen mothers to graduate
its called the teen mother program
as the teen can go to school untill there 21
if she hasent checked into that. it might be
a good idea for her to do so.
the program also has daycare for the child untill there
3yrs of age (they do here anyhow)

I agree Joy!

Well said!

You both get along. You both care about each other. Her pregnancy should matter.

Regarding being legally responsible, it depends on which state you're in. Some states you are responsible as soon as you get married. If you're not planning on ever marrying her, then she needs to know that up front. Honestly is always what matters most.

queene she has a GED already. she was in college to be a forensic scientist

Logic is sexeh.....