so i met a girl on here bout a month ago we have been texting and have actually went out 4 times. each time its gets funnier hanging out with her and we get along well. but long story short on valentines day we are going out on another date and this is the one i plan on asking her out. what is your guys advice on this situation should i or should i not? no stupid comments please

Pregnant by another man..not you?? Your a brave and kind soul....

If you like her and you don't mind she's pregnant then what advice do you need? You have to follow your heart and mind, not anyone else's...

If SHE comes with just her and the baby,,no other hidden drama's,,,,COOL FOR YOU MAN!!!!

I had a very close friend here, and HE and her had a baby.
LIFE then went very BAD!
It was HIS baby,,but he found out she lied to him about her and her life!
So,,I would go slow and just SEE?
I am assuming the baby is NOT your makings?
I fathered TWO children,,that I never helped plant their seed,wink
And their NOW grown,,and I would'nt, RE-DO ANYTHING!!!
If YOU BOTH feel LOVE,,,,very, very COOL!
I would only say please,make sure its REAL LOVE and NOT her NEEDING a FATHER for her baby?
Good luck and HAVE A GREAT DATE MAN!!!!

ya shes pregnant by another man that she was in a 2 year relationship with but he left shortly after she told him she was pregnant i believe. i've already sat down and talked to her and told her im not looking to father him and she is ok with that also we talked about her past it was the opposite of mine as i had a good past and she had a rough patch and did some stuff she admitted right away and says she will never do again.

Why shouldn't you?

You guys get along

And it seems you are having a good time together

Do what makes you feel good :)

And best of luck to you

I think Prncs just put it nicely

You apparently like her roll with it...

Just a warning.
If you two get past all and decide to live together or get married, you could become legally and financially liable for the kid even if it's not yours. Check the law in your state.
Just sayin' and good luck.

there was this girl that i went to high school with
and she had one child after
and she met her husband while she was pg with her 2nd child
they married i think a yr or so later
and claimed both her kids as his
her oldest has her last name and the 2nd child has her husbands
even though he is not the birth father.

when i met my ex hubby
my daughter was 2yrs old when we got together
and he allowed my daughter to call daddy
when we got married he had talked about adopting her
but we didnt have the extra funds to do so

some men dont have a problem dating someone that is pg

actually i think that he could only be legally liable
for the child if he adopted that child

id have to put my name on the birth certificate and i told her i wasnt doing that because im not taking chances of having to pay child support.

that was discussed within 4 dates?

but if you are planning to be with her you need to plan on partaking a paretal stand with the child.. package deal... im not talking about paying for it... now when i remarried both my kids took my husbands name as an aka... was not a legal name though it is the name they used as children by their own choice..of course when they turned 18 they had to use their legal name.

I change my answer. Run brother run

no no no. i'm saying i was telling her i was taking no chances in her trying to get me to sign then taking off and trying to make me pay for him.i know its a package deal and i do plan on helping with what little i can

I agree with this

But (and you knew there would be a but lol) be careful. She might not expect you to be a daddy, but things can change the closer you get. Plus you could get attached to the little one after the baby is born

You are one in very few. Kuddos to you dear! Good luck in what you decide

Ahhh gotcha.. Ok then.... sounds like you're playing it smart... I think you're a great guy for being open minded.. I don't think I would be..