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Topic: talking...
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Fri 02/05/10 10:30 PM
ok i started talking to this girl, we hung out the other nite and i noticed her friend that nite said something that made her alittle upset but then she seemed fine. well the next nite she texted me and were textin back and forth and she starts hating on everything i say and i go along with it and she tells me shes just kidding... and shes basically trying to make me feel like crap but i just joke back with her in the texts. well she then said your kinda touchy arnt ya. and i said im touchy? wat about you getting upset the other nite when your friend was joking with you. then she texted back saying you dont anything about that or what happened.. she said something like that. and then at the end of the text she said il talk to you later. then i texted sorry i thought we were joking around i didnt mean anything by it. then she texted watever. then i sent i really am sorry. then she texted ya bye. now what i want to know is was i wrong ? i thought we were just kidding around. and will i have a chance to still keep on talking to her?

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Fri 02/05/10 10:37 PM
some advise please?

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Fri 02/05/10 10:40 PM
if you let her actions/reactions influence your behavior...your done for..not only with her..but most females..

roko

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Fri 02/05/10 10:43 PM
so basically im not wrong or right in what i did, and just let her text me and not discuss it again rite?

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Fri 02/05/10 10:59 PM
i'm not a expert but give her 2 day's and if she likes you she'll call/text you

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Fri 02/05/10 11:10 PM

so basically im not wrong or right in what i did, and just let her text me and not discuss it again rite?


Dude, I don't see you did anything wrong. Stop apologizing so much, makes you look like a desperate puss which is a major turn off for the ladies. Don't bring it up again if she contacts you and wait till she does.

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Fri 02/05/10 11:30 PM
From what you say...it sounds like she is a bit flaky.

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Fri 02/05/10 11:55 PM
Edited by HannahHatesBananas on Fri 02/05/10 11:56 PM
first off, texts are really easy to misunderstand.

If you like this girl, CALL her and explain, then leave it alone for a little while.


It'll work out, or it won't, but that's life.

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Sat 02/06/10 01:59 AM
It sounds as if her friend told her something to make her mad at you. Yet you haven't done anything wrong. Don't feel guilty! ! This is why i prefer not to have many female friends cos they always try to ruin things. The male ones are more jokey so we just have laughs mostly. Women can be dramatic. Hell knows why! lol. Just remember that none of it is your fault. flowerforyou

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Sat 02/06/10 03:52 AM

first off, texts are really easy to misunderstand.

If you like this girl, CALL her and explain, then leave it alone for a little while.

It'll work out, or it won't, but that's life.


I completely agree ... what has happened to the younger generation?
Can they *ONLY* communicate via text-messaging?

For goodness sakes, get on the phone (i.e. voice) or better yet, get
together in person and talk it over. How do you expect a relationship
to blossom if you can't get face-to-face and really talk ?!?!?

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Sat 02/06/10 03:54 AM


first off, texts are really easy to misunderstand.

If you like this girl, CALL her and explain, then leave it alone for a little while.

It'll work out, or it won't, but that's life.


I completely agree ... what has happened to the younger generation?
Can they *ONLY* communicate via text-messaging?

For goodness sakes, get on the phone (i.e. voice) or better yet, get
together in person and talk it over. How do you expect a relationship
to blossom if you can't get face-to-face and really talk ?!?!?



Have someone break your thumbs.

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Sat 02/06/10 03:55 AM
Just call her

work it out

people hide behind this txt crap

txt should be for emergencys only!

Jmo:heart:

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Sat 02/06/10 09:05 AM

first off, texts are really easy to misunderstand.

If you like this girl, CALL her and explain, then leave it alone for a little while.


It'll work out, or it won't, but that's life.


I agree, meaning can be lost in type.drinker

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Sat 02/06/10 09:19 AM
Call her.

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Sat 02/06/10 09:23 AM
yeah call her and invite her out. but if she does not want
to get together then dont agonize about it. just go out with
some other friends.

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Sat 02/06/10 09:43 AM
whoa http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8DjqBCXU0TQslaphead :laughing:

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Sat 02/06/10 10:06 AM

Hummmmmmmmm see I don't do the texting for a reason I like to hear the tone of ones voice. Either call her and see that way or run as far away from her as you can. The way I take it is she was looking for a reason to get rid of you. Count your blessings and move on. It is not worth talking to one that tends to put you down no one deserves that from someone else.noway

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Sat 02/06/10 11:06 AM


Hummmmmmmmm see I don't do the texting for a reason I like to hear the tone of ones voice. Either call her and see that way or run as far away from her as you can. The way I take it is she was looking for a reason to get rid of you. Count your blessings and move on. It is not worth talking to one that tends to put you down no one deserves that from someone else.noway


:thumbsup:

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Sat 02/06/10 12:38 PM
I don't text or IM...
Cuts down on a lot of drama and confusion...

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Sat 02/06/10 04:08 PM

some advise please?


Don't date High school girls?

just a thought

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