Wanna go conquer france?

No?

oh, well then how about a dance?

...lol...nvm...don't use that.

tried it......and I second about the Napoleon line

Just tell 'er,"Git in da' truck, bich!"

Man up, me boyo! There's an old saying: "Faint heart never won fair lady".

Methinks that by NOT pressing on to the question, you may have given HER the idea that you don't care enough to do the extra effort.

Why is everyone here telling me to man up and ask her go on a date ??
the reason i started this topic was to get some pick up lines for a ball dance on the 14th as you see from the example the first attempt didn't go so well , i have a difficulty conversing in a as you say "cool" way.

i think the best i have gotten is the conquer France one

Don't worry about a pick up line. Just relax and be yourself. Talk about things that you know she is interested in and let that segue into asking her out.

If she is interested in you, any way you phrase it will work. If she is not interested, no "line" in the world is going to work.

Nobody can tell you how to be "cool." It comes with confidence. If you don't have confidence, women can smell it, like a dead fish.

Sorry man, such is life.

yeah but a girls perspective might just help me point in the right direction, i got no confidence problem's it's just that my natural talk is a bit "geeky" for the other's

Melodygirl, where are you?

Please help this poor lad.

Walk up to her smiling during a loud song and say
'you know you want to dance'
if she turns you down, then you say
'Nooo, I said you look big in those pants'

Or you could say
'Hi, people call me Sahil, but you can call me TONIGHT'
then wink while smiling.

Some women are attracted to the "geeky" guys, some are attracted to the "muscleheads" others attracted to the "dark-types"...you'll never know if she is attracted to you if you don't bother asking based off some silly simple reasoning like 'Maybe I'm too "geeky" for her.'

Next time, actually ask her out, rather than asking her if she's going to some event. Good luck!

Well, I haven't been a girl in a while, but I'm female, so I'll try to help. Even if it's not this girl you ask out, since she said she's going home instead of to the dance, next time, just be clear, don't make hints. Not sure about other women, but I hate hints, they make me feel insecure. If you want to ask someone out, just say, "I'd like to go to the dance, and I'd love it if you went with me." That's clear and to the point. If she says no, thank her anyway and move on. If you don't ask, you won't know, and rejection doesn't hurt forever. Good luck to you.

Good advice from Calleigh. Don't hint around at what you want. Don't expect the woman to pick up on your hints. If you want to go out with her, actually ask her out.

Maybe he will listen since the ladies came in and told him exactly what we have been telling him.

Maybe, since women and men think differently. I didn't used to want to believe that before, but recently, I found out it's true. So by women agreeing with the men, he might think the advice will work.

Hey theres a dance happening later and it sounds like it is going to be a lot of fun! I would like to invite you to join me and we will go and have a GREAT TIME! Would you like to go?

Thats fabulous. How about I pick you up at say 6:30?

Okay thanks everyone for there reply, going to try the straight forward approach suggested by everyone, wish me luck or speedy recovery based on the response's i might get

You all better be right

Nobody like my straightforward advise!

if she is just not that into you...and declines...
then it is just - well sorry you are not interested,

NEXT!!



as you can see from this site there are thousands of
great women of all types who would probably love to
go out for a nice party and an evening of dancing.



you cant lose unless you decide not to play!

Good Luck!