Topic: Why Do Men Always Cheat?
ArtGurl's photo
Wed 02/03/10 12:58 PM
cheaters grumble

Goofball73's photo
Wed 02/03/10 01:07 PM
Why do women cheat? This one is sooo simple. They cheat for one reason and one reason only.....cause man refuses to put the toilet seat down after he pees.laugh

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Wed 02/03/10 01:08 PM
A different tangent here. Purely hypothetical. You're a woman, your boyfriend or husband cheats on you with another man. Would you feel better or worse than if it was a woman he cheated with? Maybe no difference. You're a man. Your girlfriend or wife cheats on you with another woman. Better or worse? No difference? Or perhaps a double standard?

ArtGurl's photo
Wed 02/03/10 01:11 PM
Edited by ArtGurl on Wed 02/03/10 01:13 PM
Cats:
That has happened to friends of mine ... it was devastating for them. I don't know that you can put a better-worse value on a broken heart

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Wed 02/03/10 01:16 PM

A different tangent here. Purely hypothetical. You're a woman, your boyfriend or husband cheats on you with another man. Would you feel better or worse than if it was a woman he cheated with? Maybe no difference. You're a man. Your girlfriend or wife cheats on you with another woman. Better or worse? No difference? Or perhaps a double standard?
cheating is cheating regardless of who it's with. However, if my bf cheated on me with another man I can only say I might feel better because I wouldn't have the "what does the other person have that I don't" question looming over me :wink:

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Wed 02/03/10 01:18 PM

Cats:
That has happened to friends of mine ... it was devastating for them. I don't know that you can put a better-worse value on a broken heart


I know, Artgurl. I have had a friend that this happened to them as well. His name was Chris, and his girlfriend cheated on him with another woman. Surprisingly, he was absolutely devastated when he found out, and he broke up with her immediately when he found out. Took him 6 months to get over it.

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Wed 02/03/10 01:18 PM


A different tangent here. Purely hypothetical. You're a woman, your boyfriend or husband cheats on you with another man. Would you feel better or worse than if it was a woman he cheated with? Maybe no difference. You're a man. Your girlfriend or wife cheats on you with another woman. Better or worse? No difference? Or perhaps a double standard?
cheating is cheating regardless of who it's with. However, if my bf cheated on me with another man I can only say I might feel better because I wouldn't have the "what does the other person have that I don't" question looming over me :wink:


Good Point.....rofl

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Wed 02/03/10 01:19 PM

A different tangent here. Purely hypothetical. You're a woman, your boyfriend or husband cheats on you with another man. Would you feel better or worse than if it was a woman he cheated with? Maybe no difference. You're a man. Your girlfriend or wife cheats on you with another woman. Better or worse? No difference? Or perhaps a double standard?

Cheating is cheating. Makes no difference to me.

Updawg's photo
Wed 02/03/10 01:23 PM

Men cheat because they cheat. No reason.....they are visual and they will always cheat. Read the book "Every man sees you naked".


I agree men are dawgs, we all see you ladies nekkid...its what we do. Its not a problem to see things that way (provided you dont act on it)...Everything I see becomes nekkid to me....oh wait thats a tootsie roll.

But not every man cheats, I do subscribe to the saying "once a cheater always a cheater" tho. I have never cheated and will never cheat...

EquusDancer's photo
Wed 02/03/10 01:24 PM
Read Sex in History. Really good book, and men AND women have always cheated throughout history. It is the story of us as humans.

Gossipmpm's photo
Wed 02/03/10 01:24 PM
I love the show "Cheaters"

it cracks me up!!!:heart:

Updawg's photo
Wed 02/03/10 01:27 PM

I love the show "Cheaters"

it cracks me up!!!:heart:

Seen it and its funny...kinda get a kick out of watching them get busted publicly...serves them right. Wish I would have known about that show when I caught my exwife.

TxsGal3333's photo
Wed 02/03/10 01:29 PM

Why do women cheat? This one is sooo simple. They cheat for one reason and one reason only.....cause man refuses to put the toilet seat down after he pees.laugh


Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhh pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee if that was the case hell all men would still be virgins :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: tongue2

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Wed 02/03/10 02:18 PM
In all my experience it's always been the women that decide to cheat.

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Thu 02/04/10 12:31 AM

19. maybe they want something with ''no strings''

...buy a basketball...

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Thu 02/04/10 11:04 AM
The "code of conduct" is stronger amongst women than it is between men... In general, Women tend to stick together and expose the cheating males(even on dating sites :tongue:). That being said,

A cheating Man would prolly need to hit on 10 women in order to get lucky.

A cheating Woman would only need to be receptive to 1 males advance


Most women get hit on daily in one form or another during the day so I figure it would be way easier for women to cheat on men in general.

I do believe they have caught up to us over the years with the actual going ahead with the fling.

Am I wrong?

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Fri 02/05/10 12:43 PM
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XenomorphEyez's photo
Fri 02/05/10 04:36 PM
Edited by XenomorphEyez on Fri 02/05/10 04:37 PM

The "code of conduct" is stronger amongst women than it is between men... In general, Women tend to stick together and expose the cheating males(even on dating sites :tongue:). That being said,



The reason people in general think men cheat more than women is that men want to brag too much about their conquests and get a high five from their buddies. Women keep quiet.

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Fri 02/05/10 04:43 PM


The "code of conduct" is stronger amongst women than it is between men... In general, Women tend to stick together and expose the cheating males(even on dating sites :tongue:). That being said,



The reason people in general think men cheat more than women is that men want to brag too much about their conquests and get a high five from their buddies. Women keep quiet.
you know i've seen this men bragging, but men are usually quiet about it too cause the buddies he is giving high fives to probably screwed his wife or girlfriend

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Sat 02/06/10 10:40 AM


The "code of conduct" is stronger amongst women than it is between men... In general, Women tend to stick together and expose the cheating males(even on dating sites :tongue:). That being said,



The reason people in general think men cheat more than women is that men want to brag too much about their conquests and get a high five from their buddies. Women keep quiet.



Hmmm that's a fair assumption however I don't think it applies to adulthood...perhaps maturity level?
Looking back at the locker room days... H*ll yea, Mac daddy talk was the way to go and got you invited to all the cool partys. Someone should have posted a reminder in the locker room tho
"Whatever is said in a locker room, Stays in the locker room" laugh I think women are alot smarter at being discreet JMHO