Topic: Why Do Men Always Cheat?
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Sat 02/06/10 04:04 PM
That is one of the biggest misconceptions out there as I feel that it is similar in both sexes..

funanexcited18's photo
Sat 02/06/10 08:18 PM
i am 18 and i have never cheated on anyone and im proud to say that

Ladylid2012's photo
Sat 02/06/10 08:48 PM

i am 18 and i have never cheated on anyone and im proud to say that


Your only 18...my 18 year old son is a virgin. Give yourself time, your young, it may very well still happen...laugh

Dragoness's photo
Sat 02/06/10 08:51 PM
Considering that there is no VALID reason to cheat that was an excellent list of sorry excuses for being an aszhole.

funanexcited18's photo
Sat 02/06/10 08:55 PM


i am 18 and i have never cheated on anyone and im proud to say that


Your only 18...my 18 year old son is a virgin. Give yourself time, your young, it may very well still happen...laugh


i realy dnt think so im no way near a virgen and im sure u just think he is one and i realy dnt think i am going to cheat on anyone if i ever get that feeling that i want to cheat on the other someone then i tell them that im getting those fealings and try and fix it if we cant fix it then i break it off cause id want them to do the same rather than go behind my back..... i may be 18 but im more mature than others and i have morals so just because i am a guy u cant emply that im probably guna cheat cause thats not me

BestmanNdWirl's photo
Wed 02/10/10 11:37 AM
In a magazine survey since the 80s MORE women admitted to cheating than men. Why? I am not a cheater but....

Stillooknforyou's photo
Wed 02/10/10 11:51 AM
((Real Men)) Dont cheat

17 yrs never crossed the fence to the grass on the other side.

Respect for another is why, loss of respect is the main reason today



mscherbear's photo
Wed 02/10/10 11:52 AM
drinker

Nah, it's genetic.ohwellnoway

Ya see, men have thousands of sperms every single day swimming around whose sole purpose is to go after that one little old egg that comes around but once a month. Their best chance to pass their genes along to their progeny is to douse as many eggs as they can. Logically, it would be beneficial for the man to have multiple partners, more eggs to fertilize, better chance to pass on genes. It's actually pretty simple biologically speaking.

But before you go throwing me to the wolves here, I should note that a woman only has that one precious egg as a chance to pass on her genes so we're pretty selective about the quality of the sperm that get access. Men biologically benefit from quantity while women biologically benefit from quality. And guess who controls the decision to mate? bigsmile

Which ultimately means a guy actually has a better chance of passing on his genes if he suppresses his basic instincts in favor of becoming the quality guy that a woman wants. That's another lesson though and slightly off topic.

What this really boils down to is: all dumbazzes cheat but quality men don't!

drinker

buttons's photo
Wed 02/10/10 11:53 AM
Edited by buttons on Wed 02/10/10 11:55 AM
u forgot one!!!!!!!!!!!!!! the woman is not his only sexual desire< wrong tools>

kc0003's photo
Wed 02/10/10 11:58 AM

u forgot one!!!!!!!!!!!!!! the woman is not his only sexual desire< wrong tools>







noway surprised whoa

buttons's photo
Wed 02/10/10 11:59 AM
umm i should know!!!!!!!!!!!! yep that happened to me!

kc0003's photo
Wed 02/10/10 12:02 PM
ummmm yeah, i've got nothing for that...hmmmm

buttons's photo
Wed 02/10/10 12:09 PM

ummmm yeah, i've got nothing for that...hmmmm
laugh laugh i did a divorce. cheating is cheating:wink:

NathyMay's photo
Wed 02/10/10 12:29 PM
Thats completly right! I agree 100%

XenomorphEyez's photo
Wed 02/10/10 12:32 PM

i am 18 and i have never cheated on anyone and im proud to say that

I won't even read you the usual riot act of my bewilderment of teens on dating sites...anywhore...


It's funny when someone says "I'm proud to say I never (fill in the blank). You're not supposed to cheat, it's not medal worthy if you don't do it. It's like when someone says they take care of their kids...it's what you're supposed to do. It shouldn't be something we praise...it is what you do. It's not an option.

Anyway, good on you for not cheating in your long time on earth so far. May you continue on your current path of do gooder. laugh

silly's photo
Wed 02/10/10 12:32 PM

Thats completly right! I agree 100%


I second that.

Shasta1's photo
Wed 02/10/10 12:40 PM
Okay then...so why is it that when you're in a relationship you get all the offers but when you're not you don't?:wink:

Mikebert4's photo
Wed 02/10/10 01:01 PM

Why Men Cheat

First of all, men don't always cheat, but when they do, here are some possible reasons:


7. Men are single-minded and don't think about the consequences of their actions.

10. Guys cheat because many of them increasingly feel powerless in a society that is giving women more rights & powers in the domestic & public spheres.



It's a little revealing that the two points above are both hideously generalised - even sexist. They're also the only two that couldn't really apply to Women, and the only two I out-and-out disagree with.

I'm 22, still young and foolish etc but already I've been cheated on twice by girls.

We could re-write 10 to be 'women cheat because they feel that in a society where glass ceilings are lifting and equality is forever increasing they feel that they can get away with more, that their desires are morally superior to the desires of a Man'.

I guess the point I'm making is one that so many others have made:

It's all claptrap. People will cheat. Man, Women, Boy or Girl - some people are just wired that way. Sometimes there's reasons, sometimes the only reason was that the opportunity existed.

I wouldn't even go as far as to say that cheating is always wrong.

Before I qualify that statement, I definitely would/could never cheat, and I've held my moral stance in practice too - breaking up with a girlfriend of 3 1/2 years for whom I was still absolutely infatuated because she cheated on me. It hurt like crazy, and I took the best part of a year to get over it properly.

The whole episode taught me that there were many things I wasn't happy with in the relationship and actually I'm a stronger, more rounded person now than I've ever been thanks to it.

Even for couples that have gone through a rough patch and come out the other side, sometimes a serious misdeed like one of them cheating is what it takes for them both to realise how much they place in their relationship.

An example: When I broke up with my Ex. She started seeing the guy she cheated on me with, they lasted about 2 months. The only reason she fell for him was because she still had me, when I left the picture (well not entirely, we're very much still friends) she realised that she'd thrown away something much more real - this isn't me rationalising a nasty breakup, these are her words (see what I mean about still being good friends) - breaking up with her allowed us both room to become something new and better, and hence, in a roundabout way I'm now rather glad that it all happened.


Christ- I've written an essay again *sigh* Sorry folks :p


mcdchaz's photo
Thu 02/11/10 07:35 AM
not true
if he cheats forget about him

xbombxchellex's photo
Thu 02/11/10 01:58 PM
if you feel like sleeping with some one else go 4 it but tell your partner and do string them along by telling them you still love them.
so why do you still do it if you dont want us why cheat and run back??????