Topic: Hi Everyone
joy77725's photo
Sun 01/17/10 08:40 PM
I am new, 53, and was just kicked out by my fiancee 2 days after Christmas. I moved to albuquerque for 8 months for love, left my home, family and all I know here in el paso for him. He ended up being a player and engaged 2 days after I left! I loved and trusted him with my whole being. It has been 3 weeks and am ready to move on...but much slower this go around.

Updawg's photo
Sun 01/17/10 08:43 PM
good luck

tanyaann's photo
Sun 01/17/10 08:47 PM
waving welcome to the site

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Sun 01/17/10 09:20 PM
Glad you found out he was a heel before there was a marriage!! Dang!! shocked Bless your heart! His loss.
Welcome and best wishes!!! drinker

yellowrose10's photo
Sun 01/17/10 09:23 PM

justmeisme's photo
Sun 01/17/10 09:55 PM
Takes time and inner strength, but your making friends already, keepin yourself occupied and such, so I think you'll do just fine ;)

Peace and Love to you in all your endeavors!




pukkabrat's photo
Sun 01/17/10 10:03 PM
Welcome....flowerforyou This will make you stronger and wiser so you will be ready when your true love comes calling....BEST WISHES

Queene123's photo
Mon 01/18/10 01:05 AM
Edited by Queene123 on Mon 01/18/10 01:07 AM



wait he got engaged 2 days after you broke up.... it sounds like he was already in a relationship while he was with you.. hes a big time player.. you found out in time just think if you would had gotten married, it may had been worse.....

funkflex's photo
Mon 01/18/10 10:10 AM
Got to say sorry about your man - I did something similar but I was only 15. good people do bad things, it
Was cowardly to do what he did.- should have been more of a man. Can I just say you didn't waste your time with him -
You'll have learned a lot. If your ever in scotland give us a shout. -
Ps I just joined today xx

franshade's photo
Mon 01/18/10 10:13 AM
hello, welcome and good luck

rockernurse's photo
Mon 01/18/10 10:48 AM
his loss...dust yourself and move on...your new mingles friend from chitownflowerforyou