I stil dont know why the ladies here on mingle2 n the outside world waits for guys to show interest first.If lady does the same,it does'nt mean u are cheap.Anyways,i am single and available,distance is not a problem.Mail me n i'll get back to you.Good girl!

For some of us ladies that are single... it isn't about making the first move ... online or in person. There are other factors at play as to why we are single, just like a guy.

Good luck to you.

I make first moves all the time..I'm sure many women do.

Because showing interest in her show confidence on your part. Confidence is sexy.

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Ladies should learn to be the men of the relationships because that way it's easier for men to sit back and be the woman.

With all the single moms on here..maybe that has happened.

Welcome to the site.
Not sure where the blanket statement about women needing to show interest first comes from. I've got no issue about making it abundantly clear if I am interested in a man. BUT I sure the heck won't chase him or fight over him. He wants to know me or he doesn't. And I really don't know where the comment about cheap comes from unless you are meaning that it's assumed to be a sexual encounter only. But I still don't know that that would make a woman cheap, certainly no more so than a man making only sexual advances. C'est la vie, n'est pas? Egalite'!!!

Listen here, young pup, once you have lived some life... then may you have an insight on relationships!

Listen here, young pup, once you have lived some life... then may you have an insight on relationships!


oh, now your gonna get him going...

Oh he's young and scrawny.... I'll just sit on him! Give him an atomic wedgie! No problem!

All women should make the first move to get to my Johnson! That is all!!!

Johnson...is that your dog's name or what?

No.....the dog's name is Hairy Ballsac.

Does he answer to that, or do ya just call him hairy?

Instead of trying to change all the women in the world (and let me tell you, it's hard enough just trying to get one woman to do what you want) how about if you change yourself? What if you started going out and talking to every woman that caught your eye? What if you struck up a conversation, without an agenda, just to see who you click with? Then you slowly work your way up the physical touch ladder, starting small and moving up so at the end that first kiss doesn't feel awkward, but like the most natural thing in the world?

Wouldn't that be easier?

I see why you are single- Honestly!

"good girl?" what kinda crap is that? Whats next a pat on the head?

Not sure about the other ladies out there but I have no trouble making the first move. However, being who I am, I like a man with a backbone, who isnt afraid (or too lazy) to put alittle effort in...
Guess Im alittle old fashioned -

If a woman is interested , she will make the first move!

I tend to get ornery and rebellious when I hear a man say "Good girl!"

I am a traditional type of girl so I think they man show make the first move. Open doors, come to my front door to get me all that stuff.

I personally thought it was a nice touch........