So this girl and I hang out New Years Eve and we have a great time together, she says she likes me and I her. She has me in her phone as "Jake my love" and says other sweet-nothings.

But when I try to hang out again she never responds or wants to. What's the deal? Ugh, indecisiveness is crap!

She is not indecisive....In an indirect way she is saying she is not interested....She just does not have the courage to say it to your face.....

She changed her mind..

I agree

Some people get swept up in the moment and later regret being so "into a person" but don't have the guts to call it off. Being cowardly is their way out.

Just move on ....

Stalker Status

She likes your friend.Have you spoke to him since then.Woman do this

oh oh... I have the perfect guy she can go out with. She could date my ex and they could ignore each other's calls together.

call me instead

The holidays are difficult for many people, and New Years Eve is really crazy if alcohol/drugs are present. If you had a nice New Years Eve leave it there, she may have been "escaping" for the evening.

yeah man dont be disappointed when a drunk girl isnt interested when she sobers up :O
you should go out and see how many drunk girls #'s you can get tho. its pretty fun for the night. sometimes if you do it well theyll even buy you drinks

Holy crap! I'm in the SAME exact boat as you! I met this girl at a lock in at my church on New Years Eve. We were at church, so obviously neither of us had been drinking. Regardless, her and I hit it off for hours. Ended the night over some Denny's at 3 am and the next day we text all day long, right? Well the day after that, complete 180 degrees. Not ready for a relationship...blah blah blah. What the hell is one to do with that? Ugh....yes. It's disappointing, my friend. But I think it's time we moved on to the next one.

she told me to type this to you dude,"get over her"jk.
actually i think she really wasn't that interested after the fact,maybe at that moment on new years the fun yall were having but then she had a sudden change of heart. theres a song for this by george strait "she'll leave you with a smile"

My sister and I call these kinds of people "yo...yo's" one moment they want one thing & then the next moment something else; running your emotions up & down like a yoyo! Waste of your time is what they are. That's why it's good to get to know people slowly. Find out what they are looking for in a relationship and KNOW what you want too. Saves alot of wasted time!

Observation here.

It seems sometimes people get into situations that are not optimum for whatever reason (your crush is not there, rather be somewhere else but can't get there, etc....)(not saying it is right by any means) but you try to make the best of it while you are there.

That is what I read with the two scenerios on this thread.

Just making the best of the situation.

Ya'll had fun New Year's...
She made the best of a party and somebody to hang out with...
Either she was in a relationship and they made up arter,
or she just had a change of hormones, I mean, er, heart...
Just remember the good times, and move on...

DUDE,,,,its simple,,,SHE WAS DRUNK THEN!!!!


To be real man,,any person drinking,,,gets MORE lose(relaxed) when they have alcohol... like the song,,blame-it on the alcohol..


but it could be a hundred other perfectly good reasons also???


I have had THIS HAPPEN to me MANY TIMES in life,,,
and
MANY,,,were ME,,,,,not finding THEM the same,,,the NEXT DAY,,wink,lol
Once I went to bed with this one chick,,,MAN SHE WAS A 10...

but when I woke up at 10am,,,,,SHE TURNED INTO A 2.....

Don't sweat it. Just go out and have fun. If she's not there, oh well, just means somebody else can be.

If I were in the same boat (I'm sure many guys have been) and I felt that we made a connection and now she blows me off, one week later I'd be like 'What's her name again?'.

One of my good friends does that to guys all the time. She makes them feel all special and then becomes impossible to reach. She's an attention whore who wants to be everybody's dream girl, but hey what can I say, she's entertaining.

You had fun for New Years. That's all that means. If you've tried to call her and she hasn't answered back or if she hasn't tried to contact you...if you haven't heard from her since then...move on. Oh and if she does contact you, you've already fallen into the friends zone...if she liked you in a romantic way, she would of contacted you already. So when she takes advantage of your friend status and you are liking her more than she likes you, print out my post and show it to her and then ask her if this is true. I'll be waiting. Go on...

Silence is an answer, she's not being indecisive, she's not interested, and rather than telling you so outright, she figures if she ignores you long enough, you'll get the picture and go away. Be glad you had fun on New Year's Eve and move on.

Sure this is not going to be helpful and is going to make me look like a twit, but here goes.

A New Years date really hasn't any chance of developing. Reason being is my New Years date is a spontaneous, last minute choice made by a man and myself to spend the evening together and a rather romantic evening. Romantic in the sense that everything about the evening is "romantic".

I don't choose a date with any expectations other than a kiss at the strike of midnight. To stay in continuous contact, to try to make something develop with the New Years date would kill the romance of the evening.

A kind of one night stand for me. With that said I can't believe I am the only person in the world with the same idea and or tradition.