Sure this is not going to be helpful and is going to make me look like a twit, but here goes.

A New Years date really hasn't any chance of developing. Reason being is my New Years date is a spontaneous, last minute choice made by a man and myself to spend the evening together and a rather romantic evening. Romantic in the sense that everything about the evening is "romantic".

I don't choose a date with any expectations other than a kiss at the strike of midnight. To stay in continuous contact, to try to make something develop with the New Years date would kill the romance of the evening.

A kind of one night stand for me. With that said I can't believe I am the only person in the world with the same idea and or tradition.