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hmm.. I feel guilty sometimes when its something that I have done or said. I always strive to make ammends when it's something that can be fixed. There are some things out there that just can not be fixed and for those things; I learn to accept what I have done and learn from it.
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rarely feel guilty and I don't have any regrets. ^It sounds if you are not perceptive to your surroundings? ^on the contrary, if a person has done all they could do to the best of their ability, why have guilt, as I stated earlier, guilt is equivalent to nothing less than emotional insecurity, cut and dry...If you feel you haven't done enough, then you probably haven't..... as to failed marriages, hmmm. you aren't responsible for the others actions, only your reaction.....we love guilt, it helps us keep beating ourselves up even more then we initially intended.....read the book I'm ok you're ok, by Dick Gregory, you'll feel less guilt, I promise you.... Why would you feel guilty if others need help? If you can help them, that's great. But, have you caused the problems? If not, why are you feeling guilty because of them? |
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rarely feel guilty and I don't have any regrets. ^It sounds if you are not perceptive to your surroundings? ^on the contrary, if a person has done all they could do to the best of their ability, why have guilt, as I stated earlier, guilt is equivalent to nothing less than emotional insecurity, cut and dry...If you feel you haven't done enough, then you probably haven't..... as to failed marriages, hmmm. you aren't responsible for the others actions, only your reaction.....we love guilt, it helps us keep beating ourselves up even more then we initially intended.....read the book I'm ok you're ok, by Dick Gregory, you'll feel less guilt, I promise you.... Why would you feel guilty if others need help? If you can help them, that's great. But, have you caused the problems? If not, why are you feeling guilty because of them? |
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That doesn't really make sense. Why would helping someone make society insecure?
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Edited by
msharmony
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Wed 12/30/09 10:15 AM
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I feel guilt or respnsibility for actions thath harm others. I dont dwell on it.. I just dont do it again. I think stigma is highly underestimated and the culture tries too hard to remove it from people choices. The difference between saying Im responsible for a thing or Im guilty of a thing is the stigma attached.
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