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Topic: Is It Worth What You Have Had?
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Tue 12/29/09 12:51 PM
Speaking of love...:

Is it really worth the hurt or heart ache, to experience love?

Is the time you spent in love, and happy, really worth the price, you pay... should you end up going separate ways?


what drinker brokenheart

Foliel's photo
Tue 12/29/09 12:57 PM
Edited by Foliel on Tue 12/29/09 12:58 PM
For me it was worth it once, now that I have experienced it, I've moved on and am not interested in trying again, doesn't mean I won't for the right guy but for now I'm content to be single.

CatsLoveMe's photo
Tue 12/29/09 12:57 PM
Well I did learn one thing: There's no such thing as "always" or "forever." There's only right now, and maybe tomorrow.

STARTRAVELER's photo
Tue 12/29/09 12:59 PM
If your asking was the last one worth it? No. Does that mean do'nt want to try again ? No.The search is worth it

newarkjw's photo
Tue 12/29/09 01:00 PM
I guess it was worth it and taught me a very important lesson. Never get married again...........smokin

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Tue 12/29/09 01:01 PM

Well I did learn one thing: There's no such thing as "always" or "forever." There's only right now, and maybe tomorrow.


I also learned from my experiences this:

"Nothing is ever guaranteed, in a relationship"!drinker

STARTRAVELER's photo
Tue 12/29/09 01:02 PM

Well I did learn one thing: There's no such thing as "always" or "forever." There's only right now, and maybe tomorrow.
Then how come you can have children and for normal people you never stop loveing them . But no one is willing to work with the person who helped create them.Barring circumstances like abuse or some other extenuateing circumstance .

Ladylid2012's photo
Tue 12/29/09 01:04 PM
yes, it has all been worth it.

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Tue 12/29/09 01:08 PM


Well I did learn one thing: There's no such thing as "always" or "forever." There's only right now, and maybe tomorrow.
Then how come you can have children and for normal people you never stop loveing them . But no one is willing to work with the person who helped create them.Barring circumstances like abuse or some other extenuateing circumstance .



Good question. I think that people love their children forever because there is a different relationship there(not a partnership). From the onset, the parent feels responsible for their child whereas a spouse is not meant to be responsible for their spouse.

When people enter partnerships, they usually expect a give and take that isnt usually mandated in a parent child relationship.

msharmony's photo
Tue 12/29/09 01:10 PM
As to was it worth it,,,

Yes. The marriage of my youth was the most wonderful experience I have had (while it was good) and to this day, I havent found a love like it and dont regret that I got to experience it once in my life.

My childhood husband and I still have a love and respect for each other that is hard to explain and unmatched by anyone I have tried to have a relationship with since. ITs a wonderful connection to have with someone.

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Tue 12/29/09 01:11 PM
Relationships are like novels some you just cant stand, others are exciting, others are just okay, and others you wonder if you can get your money back.

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Tue 12/29/09 01:12 PM
There are many types of love, so what I had refereed to(and didn't mention in original post)was/is the partnership type of love!

Love for your children, that resulted from that union, is a totally different feeling!

JMO

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Tue 12/29/09 01:14 PM
Love is always worth it.

Sure it comes with eventual heartache and misery. So what?

Lot's of stuff comes with misery. Traffic jams. Crappy music when stuck in an elevator. Waiting at the DMV. Chick flicks.


At least with love, you get to experience moments of pure joy. For those brief moments....it is worth even years of desolate misery.

TxsGal3333's photo
Tue 12/29/09 01:19 PM

Love is always worth it.

Sure it comes with eventual heartache and misery. So what?

Lot's of stuff comes with misery. Traffic jams. Crappy music when stuck in an elevator. Waiting at the DMV. Chick flicks.


At least with love, you get to experience moments of pure joy. For those brief moments....it is worth even years of desolate misery.


I totally agree it is always worth it. Just think what this world would be like if we could not experience those feelings...........noway

TxsSun's photo
Tue 12/29/09 01:20 PM
It is all worth it. I loved and have very fond memories
of it.

I hurt and I grew from the pain.

Live and learn, that is what makes us who we are.

CatsLoveMe's photo
Tue 12/29/09 01:38 PM
To use a metaphor, it's my metaphor, I can use it if I want to.

It's like being drunk at a party and the day after; Fun while you're doing it, but the next day you're wondering WTF were you thinking?

seamac's photo
Tue 12/29/09 01:42 PM

Love is always worth it.

Sure it comes with eventual heartache and misery. So what?

Lot's of stuff comes with misery. Traffic jams. Crappy music when stuck in an elevator. Waiting at the DMV. Chick flicks.


At least with love, you get to experience moments of pure joy. For those brief moments....it is worth even years of desolate misery.



And this, Krupa is why we all love you!

Beautifully said, thank you!

MeChrissy2's photo
Tue 12/29/09 02:21 PM

It is all worth it. I loved and have very fond memories
of it.

I hurt and I grew from the pain.

Live and learn, that is what makes us who we are.


Ditto.bigsmile

Holly4459's photo
Tue 12/29/09 02:23 PM

Love is always worth it.

Sure it comes with eventual heartache and misery. So what?

Lot's of stuff comes with misery. Traffic jams. Crappy music when stuck in an elevator. Waiting at the DMV. Chick flicks.


At least with love, you get to experience moments of pure joy. For those brief moments....it is worth even years of desolate misery.
Chick Flicks rock:banana:

TxsSun's photo
Tue 12/29/09 02:27 PM


It is all worth it. I loved and have very fond memories
of it.

I hurt and I grew from the pain.

Live and learn, that is what makes us who we are.


Ditto.bigsmile



Chrissy flowerforyou

Good to see you bigsmile

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