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Topic: Dutch treat
yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Mon 12/28/09 07:32 PM
How long do you date before sharing the cost of going out?

buttons Joined Mon 11/06/06 Posts: 25783	Mon 12/28/09 07:34 PM
dang i came a running looking for a dutchman!

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Mon 12/28/09 07:34 PM


buttons Joined Mon 11/06/06 Posts: 25783	Mon 12/28/09 07:35 PM
for me first date for i always meet as friends.. first!!

buttons Joined Mon 11/06/06 Posts: 25783	Mon 12/28/09 07:36 PM
well u ever hear one that speaks english? omg!!

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Mon 12/28/09 07:36 PM
I don't date, so I never have that problem.

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Mon 12/28/09 07:36 PM
how about after? do you keep it as Dutch?

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Mon 12/28/09 07:37 PM
I don't date, so I never have that problem. I am there with ya

buttons Joined Mon 11/06/06 Posts: 25783	Mon 12/28/09 07:39 PM
how about after? do you keep it as Dutch? no if i like him enough more than a friend he can pay the next few times... maybe more now that i dont have a job lol! however later on i take him out as well and pay..

JustAGuy2112 Joined Sun 12/16/07 Posts: 18033	Mon 12/28/09 08:56 PM
How long do you date before sharing the cost of going out? If I am the one making the date, I pay. I never think about going dutch. Never even had it brought up for that matter.

aladytoo Joined Tue 02/03/09 Posts: 833	Tue 12/29/09 03:05 AM
If i'm the one that suggested the date,I offer.If they refuse my offer and you went to dinner,I leave the tip then.

TexasScoundrel Joined Wed 10/29/08 Posts: 3693	Tue 12/29/09 05:03 AM
I don't worry too much about about splitting it exactly. Maybe I'll pay for dinner and when we bounce to a nightclub she can get the drinks. After we've had sex I'm a little more inclined to pay for a whole night out.

BonnyMiss Joined Thu 05/10/07 Posts: 15342	Tue 12/29/09 05:07 AM
I am sooooo getting this topic pulled! It defies the Trades Description Act. No Dutchmen in sight!!!

TexasScoundrel Joined Wed 10/29/08 Posts: 3693	Tue 12/29/09 05:14 AM
I am sooooo getting this topic pulled! It defies the Trades Description Act. No Dutchmen in sight!!! I agree with you. It's racism or nationalism. It's like calling someone an "Indian" giver or saying they "Welshed" on paying. These are unkind terms we should do away with.

BonnyMiss Joined Thu 05/10/07 Posts: 15342	Tue 12/29/09 05:16 AM
I am sooooo getting this topic pulled! It defies the Trades Description Act. No Dutchmen in sight!!! I agree with you. It's racism or nationalism. It's like calling someone an "Indian" giver or saying they "Welshed" on paying. These are unkind terms we should do away with. I am getting it pulled because she said "Dutch Treats" I looked but couldn't find any. I am going to report her for making false promises, I don't care if she is a moderator either!!!

papersmile Joined Fri 10/12/07 Posts: 5148	Tue 12/29/09 05:17 AM
i almost always share the first night out. if not, i definitely suggest rotating costs. i always feel as though i'm taking advantage of someone if we are both out enjoying the evening and i'm not paying for anything.

Jtevans Joined Fri 08/10/07 Posts: 30654	Tue 12/29/09 05:23 AM
holy crap....now we have to take the woman out to dinner???

TexasScoundrel Joined Wed 10/29/08 Posts: 3693	Tue 12/29/09 05:25 AM
holy crap....now we have to take the woman out to dinner??? If you're smooth enough, the women will take you out to dinner.

XenomorphEyez Joined Sun 11/29/09 Posts: 923	Tue 12/29/09 09:14 AM
How long do you date before sharing the cost of going out?

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Tue 12/29/09 09:17 AM
I am sooooo getting this topic pulled! It defies the Trades Description Act. No Dutchmen in sight!!! I agree with you. It's racism or nationalism. It's like calling someone an "Indian" giver or saying they "Welshed" on paying. These are unkind terms we should do away with. I am getting it pulled because she said "Dutch Treats" I looked but couldn't find any. I am going to report her for making false promises, I don't care if she is a moderator either!!!