I am good looking. Just shy until I know someone. I don't do the bar scene. How do I meet women? Any advice.

online or in real life?

Get em drunk and flash em

Pick up a new hobby. Take a cooking class. Go get a coffee at the bookstore. Put yourself in situations where you can strike up a conversation with a fem. You have to push your comfort zone a little... and take the steps to put yourself out there and initiate contact.

Get familiar with women first. Have 100 dollars in 5s and 1s and and some extra money for drinks and visit your local strip club.

Shyness is usually a turn off. Try not to be so shy. Don't over step your comfort zone, just try to be more outgoing a little at a time. Maybe start by going out to eat a bit more often. Maybe find some different places in your area to hangout. Join a club or two. Try new things. Switch up your routine a bit. Learn more about you. Become more comfortable with yourself. Just try not to be so shy. You don't necessarily have to change who you are, just try to be more outgoing.

i had a old bf that his buddy was very shy when it came to talking to other woman
but when it came talking to me, he had no problem he was very out spoken when he talked to me..

just be yourself

where in the world do you get the idea that shyness is a turn off
NO!! its not

in real life, ,try little steps, like saying hello or how are you to people out and about town. On line,, send some nudges, or post something interesting in the forums to see who might be on the same page(you would be surprised how many emails you can get from people in the forums who like what you have to say on a subject)...most of all just relax and be yourself, but participate

practice on us in the forums

Just grab em in the biscuits...then run...its illegal evidently

or as I said, in a strip club. There is no danger of rejection there if you got the cash!

danger of other things though

I don't agree that shyness is a turn off. When I meet one who is shy and quiet I figure he is doing the same thing I do at first. Getting comfortable with my surroundings, feeling out the energy of those around me, making eye contact and reading people...
then when I am comfortable I will loosen up (or I have gotten a bad vibe and will leave) and get more involved.
I think shyness is mysterious and much more attractive than one who comes off like gangbusters, obnoxious and comes on too strong.

To hell with the " handsome " shy dude.

Tell me how an UGLY shy guy can attract women.

THEN I'll be getting somewhere. LOL

stick with me kid

By personality darling... by personality!

I am SO screwed.