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I guess I can't relate to shyness. People usually have a hard time shutting me up
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I guess I can't relate to shyness. People usually have a hard time shutting me up
I tend to be drawn to talktive women. I'm more of a listener than a talker, but if someone is talking to me, I will talk back. |
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To hell with the " handsome " shy dude. Tell me how an UGLY shy guy can attract women. THEN I'll be getting somewhere. LOL I'm not buying it..you are neither ugly or shy. Maybe your not as shy here as in real life, but who isn't. I'm very shy in person, till I get to know people..believe it or not. When I am around people that I don't know....I really don't say much of anything for a while. For how long depends on how quickly I get comfortable and how long it takes me to determine whether, when I Do decide to get involved in conversations, the folks involved will actually get the joke. I have had nights where I went out with my brother to a bar or something, and I didn't say much of anything to anyone for the entire night because I knew they weren't going to able to " get it ". That doesn't mean I'm not friendly to the people that talk to me. I'll respond and converse with them, but only to a point. I'll just be careful about what I say. I know what ya mean...I have had some who get to know me later...than the initial meeting and tell me they thought I was cool or aloof...even a b!tch, and how pleasantly surprised they are by how I really am. I rarely go out of my way to engage in conversations...in real life, as most people don't ...get me. |
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To hell with the " handsome " shy dude. Tell me how an UGLY shy guy can attract women. THEN I'll be getting somewhere. LOL I'm not buying it..you are neither ugly or shy. Maybe your not as shy here as in real life, but who isn't. I'm very shy in person, till I get to know people..believe it or not. When I am around people that I don't know....I really don't say much of anything for a while. For how long depends on how quickly I get comfortable and how long it takes me to determine whether, when I Do decide to get involved in conversations, the folks involved will actually get the joke. I have had nights where I went out with my brother to a bar or something, and I didn't say much of anything to anyone for the entire night because I knew they weren't going to able to " get it ". That doesn't mean I'm not friendly to the people that talk to me. I'll respond and converse with them, but only to a point. I'll just be careful about what I say. I know what ya mean...I have had some who get to know me later...than the initial meeting and tell me they thought I was cool or aloof...even a b!tch, and how pleasantly surprised they are by how I really am. I rarely go out of my way to engage in conversations...in real life, as most people don't ...get me. I've been called cold, aloof, an azzhole among other things, before people got to know me. |
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To hell with the " handsome " shy dude. Tell me how an UGLY shy guy can attract women. THEN I'll be getting somewhere. LOL I'm not buying it..you are neither ugly or shy. Maybe your not as shy here as in real life, but who isn't. I'm very shy in person, till I get to know people..believe it or not. When I am around people that I don't know....I really don't say much of anything for a while. For how long depends on how quickly I get comfortable and how long it takes me to determine whether, when I Do decide to get involved in conversations, the folks involved will actually get the joke. I have had nights where I went out with my brother to a bar or something, and I didn't say much of anything to anyone for the entire night because I knew they weren't going to able to " get it ". That doesn't mean I'm not friendly to the people that talk to me. I'll respond and converse with them, but only to a point. I'll just be careful about what I say. I know what ya mean...I have had some who get to know me later...than the initial meeting and tell me they thought I was cool or aloof...even a b!tch, and how pleasantly surprised they are by how I really am. I rarely go out of my way to engage in conversations...in real life, as most people don't ...get me. I've been called cold, aloof, an azzhole among other things, before people got to know me. yeah..if your gonna call me names at least get to know me first and see if your initial judgment is right.. 
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To hell with the " handsome " shy dude. Tell me how an UGLY shy guy can attract women. THEN I'll be getting somewhere. LOL I'm not buying it..you are neither ugly or shy. Maybe your not as shy here as in real life, but who isn't. I'm very shy in person, till I get to know people..believe it or not. When I am around people that I don't know....I really don't say much of anything for a while. For how long depends on how quickly I get comfortable and how long it takes me to determine whether, when I Do decide to get involved in conversations, the folks involved will actually get the joke. I have had nights where I went out with my brother to a bar or something, and I didn't say much of anything to anyone for the entire night because I knew they weren't going to able to " get it ". That doesn't mean I'm not friendly to the people that talk to me. I'll respond and converse with them, but only to a point. I'll just be careful about what I say. I know what ya mean...I have had some who get to know me later...than the initial meeting and tell me they thought I was cool or aloof...even a b!tch, and how pleasantly surprised they are by how I really am. I rarely go out of my way to engage in conversations...in real life, as most people don't ...get me. I've been called cold, aloof, an azzhole among other things, before people got to know me. yeah..if your gonna call me names at least get to know me first and see if your initial judgment is right..
It's actually kinda fun for me to watch them have to change up their initial impression. |
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To hell with the " handsome " shy dude. Tell me how an UGLY shy guy can attract women. THEN I'll be getting somewhere. LOL I'd rather a guy who called himself ugly than one who introduced himself as handsome. I'm a sucker for modesty, if a guy is stuck on himself and actually has to tell me he's attractive, I'll pass. Besides beauty is relative, what's hot to one is gross to another. 
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I am good looking. Just shy until I know someone. I don't do the bar scene. How do I meet women? Any advice. Not buying it. Hmmm, for someone so shy, you had no problem with telling us of your self perception of good looking. I don't think you are shy at all. A shy person wouldn't put themselves out there like this to draw attention. 
I concur. 
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To hell with the " handsome " shy dude. Tell me how an UGLY shy guy can attract women. THEN I'll be getting somewhere. LOL I'd rather a guy who called himself ugly than one who introduced himself as handsome. I'm a sucker for modesty, if a guy is stuck on himself and actually has to tell me he's attractive, I'll pass. Besides beauty is relative, what's hot to one is gross to another.
exactly...the "gods gift to women" attitude isn't very attractive. |
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To hell with the " handsome " shy dude. Tell me how an UGLY shy guy can attract women. THEN I'll be getting somewhere. LOL I'd rather a guy who called himself ugly than one who introduced himself as handsome. I'm a sucker for modesty, if a guy is stuck on himself and actually has to tell me he's attractive, I'll pass. Besides beauty is relative, what's hot to one is gross to another.
exactly...the "gods gift to women" attitude isn't very attractive. Yep, especially when they're wrong. I have my own idea of a gorgeous man, and most men I see sooooo aren't it. 
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To hell with the " handsome " shy dude. Tell me how an UGLY shy guy can attract women. THEN I'll be getting somewhere. LOL I'd rather a guy who called himself ugly than one who introduced himself as handsome. I'm a sucker for modesty, if a guy is stuck on himself and actually has to tell me he's attractive, I'll pass. Besides beauty is relative, what's hot to one is gross to another.
exactly...the "gods gift to women" attitude isn't very attractive. Yep, especially when they're wrong. I have my own idea of a gorgeous man, and most men I see sooooo aren't it.
and even if they are initially "good looking" the arrogance, I'm so cool, I'm so hot, you should feel lucky to be seen with me, persona takes away from the looks..amazing how ugly someone can turn...rather quickly. |
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To hell with the " handsome " shy dude. Tell me how an UGLY shy guy can attract women. THEN I'll be getting somewhere. LOL I'd rather a guy who called himself ugly than one who introduced himself as handsome. I'm a sucker for modesty, if a guy is stuck on himself and actually has to tell me he's attractive, I'll pass. Besides beauty is relative, what's hot to one is gross to another.
exactly...the "gods gift to women" attitude isn't very attractive. Yep, especially when they're wrong. I have my own idea of a gorgeous man, and most men I see sooooo aren't it.
and even if they are initially "good looking" the arrogance, I'm so cool, I'm so hot, you should feel lucky to be seen with me, persona takes away from the looks..amazing how ugly someone can turn...rather quickly. Makes one ask, If you're so awesome why hasn't someone snatched you up yet????
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To hell with the " handsome " shy dude. Tell me how an UGLY shy guy can attract women. THEN I'll be getting somewhere. LOL I'd rather a guy who called himself ugly than one who introduced himself as handsome. I'm a sucker for modesty, if a guy is stuck on himself and actually has to tell me he's attractive, I'll pass. Besides beauty is relative, what's hot to one is gross to another.
exactly...the "gods gift to women" attitude isn't very attractive. Yep, especially when they're wrong. I have my own idea of a gorgeous man, and most men I see sooooo aren't it.
and even if they are initially "good looking" the arrogance, I'm so cool, I'm so hot, you should feel lucky to be seen with me, persona takes away from the looks..amazing how ugly someone can turn...rather quickly. Makes one ask, If you're so awesome why hasn't someone snatched you up yet????
yep..I asked one that once... He old me when I broke up with him..."I can get any woman I want, there must be something really wrong with me if a fat, ugly, poor, single mom. hick like you doesn't want me". I told him... good, you'll be just fine with out me..go get one of them since your so desirable. |
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To hell with the " handsome " shy dude. Tell me how an UGLY shy guy can attract women. THEN I'll be getting somewhere. LOL I'd rather a guy who called himself ugly than one who introduced himself as handsome. I'm a sucker for modesty, if a guy is stuck on himself and actually has to tell me he's attractive, I'll pass. Besides beauty is relative, what's hot to one is gross to another.
exactly...the "gods gift to women" attitude isn't very attractive. Yep, especially when they're wrong. I have my own idea of a gorgeous man, and most men I see sooooo aren't it.
and even if they are initially "good looking" the arrogance, I'm so cool, I'm so hot, you should feel lucky to be seen with me, persona takes away from the looks..amazing how ugly someone can turn...rather quickly. Makes one ask, If you're so awesome why hasn't someone snatched you up yet????
yep..I asked one that once... He old me when I broke up with him..."I can get any woman I want, there must be something really wrong with me if a fat, ugly, poor, single mom. hick like you doesn't want me". I told him... good, you'll be just fine with out me..go get one of them since your so desirable. Omg what a douche!!! He was a douche and a liar. You should have kicked him in the man berries. 
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To hell with the " handsome " shy dude. Tell me how an UGLY shy guy can attract women. THEN I'll be getting somewhere. LOL I'd rather a guy who called himself ugly than one who introduced himself as handsome. I'm a sucker for modesty, if a guy is stuck on himself and actually has to tell me he's attractive, I'll pass. Besides beauty is relative, what's hot to one is gross to another.
exactly...the "gods gift to women" attitude isn't very attractive. Yep, especially when they're wrong. I have my own idea of a gorgeous man, and most men I see sooooo aren't it.
and even if they are initially "good looking" the arrogance, I'm so cool, I'm so hot, you should feel lucky to be seen with me, persona takes away from the looks..amazing how ugly someone can turn...rather quickly. Makes one ask, If you're so awesome why hasn't someone snatched you up yet????
yep..I asked one that once... He old me when I broke up with him..."I can get any woman I want, there must be something really wrong with me if a fat, ugly, poor, single mom. hick like you doesn't want me". I told him... good, you'll be just fine with out me..go get one of them since your so desirable. Omg what a douche!!! He was a douche and a liar. You should have kicked him in the man berries.
It dosen't seem like he had any. |
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Good point, he was a d!ckless, berryless, spineless douche.
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To hell with the " handsome " shy dude. Tell me how an UGLY shy guy can attract women. THEN I'll be getting somewhere. LOL I'd rather a guy who called himself ugly than one who introduced himself as handsome. I'm a sucker for modesty, if a guy is stuck on himself and actually has to tell me he's attractive, I'll pass. Besides beauty is relative, what's hot to one is gross to another.
exactly...the "gods gift to women" attitude isn't very attractive. Yep, especially when they're wrong. I have my own idea of a gorgeous man, and most men I see sooooo aren't it.
and even if they are initially "good looking" the arrogance, I'm so cool, I'm so hot, you should feel lucky to be seen with me, persona takes away from the looks..amazing how ugly someone can turn...rather quickly. Makes one ask, If you're so awesome why hasn't someone snatched you up yet????
yep..I asked one that once... He old me when I broke up with him..."I can get any woman I want, there must be something really wrong with me if a fat, ugly, poor, single mom. hick like you doesn't want me". I told him... good, you'll be just fine with out me..go get one of them since your so desirable. Omg what a douche!!! He was a douche and a liar. You should have kicked him in the man berries.
yeah, was brutal....made me feel like a fat, ugly, poor, single mom, hick for a day or two..
I got over it ...was like a kick in the teeth for my self esteem... He kept calling, bugged me for months and months, so I don't think he really felt that way, was just trying to hurt me, and he did. |
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Well, you're none of those things, well you're a single mom, obviously, but that's not a bad thing. From the sounds of it, you're a pretty good mom. I agree he was just being a cruel prick, I've had guys pull that chit on me, I was beautiful when they wanted me and I turned into an ugly b!tch when I rejected them. Such cowards.....
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Well, you're none of those things, well you're a single mom, obviously, but that's not a bad thing. From the sounds of it, you're a pretty good mom. I agree he was just being a cruel prick, I've had guys pull that chit on me, I was beautiful when they wanted me and I turned into an ugly b!tch when I rejected them. Such cowards..... yeah I get that now and for long time since..hurt at the time and that was what he wanted to do... Besides I've been called worse by better people.. 
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