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People who come from broken dysfunctional homes, usually. They relate fighting and constant arguing with love. Some, simply do it out of boredom to release chemicals in the brain that give them a sense of euphoria, because they have nothing better to do. Lot's of reasons, but those are a couple I can think of on top of my head. Addicts! ... Ding, ding ... ... Kim! Tell him what he's won ... he won a cookie....well as soon as I figure out where they are hiding them in here |
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ok....let me ask posters this.... I realize everyone has a bad day (or year in my case ) but when someone is always negative or causing problems....how long do you stick around for that??? do you just say "they are having a bad day" and wait until they get it together or do you wait longer or what? If they're having a bad day, I generally avoid them, unless they are seeking my support, then I will be there for them the best I can, try to remind them to stay positive if I can. But, if they're just constantly negative, then I have to cut them off, I can't allow them to bring me down with them. |
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ok....let me ask posters this.... I realize everyone has a bad day (or year in my case ) but when someone is always negative or causing problems....how long do you stick around for that??? do you just say "they are having a bad day" and wait until they get it together or do you wait longer or what? I'm such a wag~tailed puppy by nature! ... NO WAY THEY CAN STAY IN MY LIFE! My optimistic positivity just can NOT sustain these negative, pessimistic sorts ... ... It is like a good battery gettin' drained by a bad one! NOPE! ... I will ONLY entertain these types in my clinic; and even then ONLY if they are truly determined to get well! Outlook and disposition really ARE a CHOICE! ... Talk is cheap, if they aren't walkin' it ... The door is thatttaway ... Don't leaf mad, just leaf ... Don't let the door hitcha where it'll splitcha ... OUT! |
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If they're negative, causing trouble or just starting drama all the time, I'm not sticking around for long. I have no use for those kind of people.
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I like drama............... I make money by selling at such events. I am also a masochistic voyeur who enjoys watching people typing the stuffing out of each other!!!
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I like drama............... I make money by selling at such events. I am also a masochistic voyeur who enjoys watching people typing the stuffing out of each other!!! I'll just bet if you got involved with a sadist, and he asked you to "hurt him"......you'd say.... "Haha....."NO" |
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Edited by
Dancere
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Sun 12/27/09 09:03 PM
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I like drama............... I make money by selling at such events. I am also a masochistic voyeur who enjoys watching people typing the stuffing out of each other!!! ... ... @ Bonnie! It reminds me of a cartoon Charles at least once had on his profile, funniest thing I've see as far as this subject goes: A stick figure guy is busy, furiously typing away on his laptop ... ... His wife calls from the hallway, "Are you coming to bed, dear?" "NOT NOW, dear ... Someone is WRONG on the internet!!!" EDIT ... Streuth! |
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I'll just bet if you got involved with a sadist, and he asked you to "hurt him"......you'd say.... "Haha....."NO" Go on then, ask me................ |
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ooooh....Hurt Me!
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ooooh....Hurt Me! Again? |
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I SOOOOOO LOVE LOVE LOVE BEING WRONG(ED)!
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I SOOOOOO LOVE LOVE LOVE BEING WRONG(ED)! Bring your drama to mama!! |
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Much of it is habit..like Scott said. There are memories that trigger certain behaviors. Which is the same reason many have the same repeated relationships...the same person just in a different body..over and over again. It takes much awareness and emotional maturity to stop the patterns..
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I like drama............... I make money by selling at such events. I am also a masochistic voyeur who enjoys watching people typing the stuffing out of each other!!! ya know...I've heard that about you |
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I just wanted to let you guys know,that sometimes I sit all alone at night and wonder....Why..,why me?.....
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I like drama............... I make money by selling at such events. I am also a masochistic voyeur who enjoys watching people typing the stuffing out of each other!!! ya know...I've heard that about you And now you are hearing it form "the horse's mouth" so-to-speak. |
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I SOOOOOO LOVE LOVE LOVE BEING WRONG(ED)! Bring your drama to mama!! My drama and I...on the way |
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so what makes some people attracted to drama....whether it's in real life or online? tis the spice of life |
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so what makes some people attracted to drama....whether it's in real life or online? tis the spice of life Hola! Belated Merry Everything to you. How was your holidays? |
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so what makes some people attracted to drama....whether it's in real life or online? tis the spice of life Hola! Belated Merry Everything to you. How was your holidays? hiya bonny! same to ya and best wishes for the new year as well. the holidays was hectic, helped with some home renovations and was sore for days how about yours? |
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