drama and dateing sites just go together ,kinda like peas an carrots. love to read a profile that the first think they say is they dont have any drama in thier lifes, me thinks they must live in thier own lil world where everything is perfect lol.

in just the last week on this site there has been a few attention whores ,but hey why not ,are we not on here to get to know another person for dateing or a friend or what ever. well most of us are.

there are others that are on here to visit with friends and thats all .they are of a mind set that they dont want to hear about anything that might upset the so called apple cart.

did I say that.

good points Hunter

thanks yellowrose. there are all kinds of folks on this site,we come from all walks of life, not all of us have led the perfect life or not a damn one of us would be on a dateing site now would we.


food for thought,,,,,,

No, its not attractive at all and is often very hurtful and damaging.

I've been here since 07 and almost 40,000 posts....so yeah...I know about online

I was also referring to real life.

ha ha real life for some is right here on the forms lol.
no its not healthy to go about life with the added stress of all the extra drama, but it is part of it, now how a person handles it,
that is what makes the difference. some can ,most cant.



one day at a time,take what ya need and leave the rest.

say dont let the numbers of posts under my name lead ya to think this is my first rodeo, thats just from this site.

VERY true Ruth.

Now I'm not talking about "normal drama" I think we all have some drama to an extent, but the silly, hurtful, childish stuff (Jerry Springer drama) is what I'm talking about.

I guess I'm wondering about the mindset. Is it because they have no life or their lives are so bad they invent things to make it exciting?

Why say you hate drama but stir the drama pot?

I hate drama and try to avoid it (even though that's not always possible)

first rodeo huh? Should I start an 8 sec rumor?

Sorry...couldn't resit that one

lol why by all means go ahead, but add to the rumor that I keep getting back on till the ride is over .

There are those who blame the site
for everything.
If no one likes them, it is the
site's fault.
Must be cliques.
Must be 'whores.'

If they load for bear, and see none,
they fire-up the name-calling.
High need for drama to get attention.

You ARE what you say.
The truth will out.

hunter....you are a good cookie. I like how you can handle jokes.

It's MY fault???? Dang it....those rumors ARE true then.

I TOLD you, you could not hide perfection :-)

well if one more person says that,it will make two of ya lol.

the only way I find out about myself is to hear the latest rumor I guess

well I think there is a rumor that I have multiple personalities. So it could be only one person really told you that

yep always the last to know.

This site used to be really bad when it came to drama and rumors, but since the people that caused much of it are gone, it has gotten a lot better.

And no, it's definitely not an attractive quality.

What if I don't have a mama to save my drama for? HUH!?!

I'll be your mama (wait....that doesn't sound right does it? lol)