Last night, heard something about this was a person who touched your heart, waking you up to the highest phase of love..
Do you have a definition for such...do you believe you have one?

You already said it. What's going on now makes me question the reality of loves past.

No.

No such thing.

At least, not for me.

Every guy I've ever been in a relationship with has told me I was their soul mate. I don't believe in soul mates. Guess it's all perception, huh?

I thought I had one, but it turned out she just needed me to help her get her life back together. As soon as i did that, she was gone.

I'm really not sure about the validity of the soulmate concept -- right now, I'd have to say I'm skeptical about the whole thing, but I'm willing to be proven wrong.

I've never experienced that but my best friend found hers at 18 and they aren't together anymore. But she'll never love anyone like she loves Jon. And I think all her boyfriends will know. Which kinda sucks for them because he's an all-star.

So yea, I believe it, but I also know it can sometimes be a curse.

My ex and I talked about this because of the love we had, we think that perhaps we came nto this life to be a part of each's life but not entire. I feel he was a soul mate, but not lifetime one.


I'cve met people in life - and instantly clicked and we would fall into talking like we've known each other for years, and strangers like that sometimes...like in a line. I have a couple of friends like that, and met someone a long time ago that to this day...wonder if they were my 'soulmate.
I really believe we can have more than one, and yet there is the one.

Ummmm...methinks her perception of a " soul mate " is kinda skewed.

Not at all. Some people are destined to love each other and due to circumstance or stubborness they just can't be together. I think it's called tragedy. But that doesn't mean it's not love.

Perhaps you read it on a Hallmark card!

If it was " destined " to be, then it would be. For a " soul mate " circumstances or stubbornness " wouldn't be any kind of issue.

That smacks more of immaturity that it does of " not meant to be ".

JMO of course.

I asked IF you had a def of some sort, not would someone go around attacking others because of what they believe.

I think a soul mate is someone with whom you have a deep emotional connection to. That doesn't necessarily mean you will be with them in this lifetime as a S/0 but you always feel that connection to and love for them.

Yes, thats a good perception.

I " attacked " no one with my opinion.

The person I was talking to can take it for what it's worth.

I believe something different than the example she posted.

So...if you read my post again, you'll SEE my definition.

Nope, too expensive to even read

I do believe in soul mates.True love,destiny all that.But are people willing to but in the time needed to make it all work.? everythings not just going to fall into place it all takes work..and in a relationship more then love to make to grow & thrive..I have had several men tell me that they will always love me no matter what. and that no one will ever take my place,we are meant to be.all that wrapped up in a pretty bow story.. But if love was all it took then me & my x-Finance would still be together..but alas It takes more..and He had issues & a lot of subscriptions that I didn't want or need..HAHA..But I know hes out there,So I wait..

just a term somebody made up...it means whatever you want it to...JMHO of course..

of course.

To me a soul mate is a person who is so in tune with you that both physically and mentally you are a perfect match. I think with millions of people out there there must be a soul mate (perfect match) for at least a good number of people. Now, whether they can actually find each other, at the right time in their lives, that is a whole different matter. But yes, I believe in soul mates.