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Topic: How much?
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Fri 12/18/09 02:20 PM
If you see someone's face here, and then read their profile.
And then think and feel their just to cool,,and You feel they COULD-BE,,,someone that you could fall in love with,,maybe,wink,?

How much time and effort do YOU try to give them to feel that also?

How much do you apply yourself as to going after THEIR heart????

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Fri 12/18/09 02:30 PM
I'm really liking your hair cut. laugh

writer_gurl's photo
Fri 12/18/09 02:32 PM

If you like someone and think you could be their soulmate then I say take that chance...Even if they aren't at least you have tried your best:smile: bigsmile :smile:

misstina2's photo
Fri 12/18/09 02:33 PM
flowerforyou I believe looks attract 1st then you look for further compatabiltyflowerforyou I do like a guy to show interest 1st but I might give a friendly email to see how he responds if i felt compelled:tongue:

Pickofthelitter's photo
Fri 12/18/09 03:03 PM
I try to try as little as possible, but then end up trying to hard.

It's hopeless.

I think either you click within the first 3 e-mails, and move on to the phone phase, or you just move on, unless you came here looking for a pen pal.

lilott's photo
Fri 12/18/09 03:34 PM

If you see someone's face here, and then read their profile.
And then think and feel their just to cool,,and You feel they COULD-BE,,,someone that you could fall in love with,,maybe,wink,?

How much time and effort do YOU try to give them to feel that also?

How much do you apply yourself as to going after THEIR heart????
Never. Not looking for that sort of junk.

Ladylid2012's photo
Fri 12/18/09 03:38 PM

I try to try as little as possible, but then end up trying to hard.

It's hopeless.

I think either you click within the first 3 e-mails, and move on to the phone phase, or you just move on, unless you came here looking for a pen pal.


drinker

motowndowntown's photo
Fri 12/18/09 03:41 PM
I usually just go and make a sandwich and forget about it.

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Sat 12/19/09 05:40 PM

I try to try as little as possible, but then end up trying to hard.

It's hopeless.

I think either you click within the first 3 e-mails, and move on to the phone phase, or you just move on, unless you came here looking for a pen pal.
I've NEVER really TRIED,,,,,,much at all?

AND,,,,,,I couldn't tell you WHY??

But there HAS-TO BE,,,,a reason for that?




If I feel THEY,,,,,weren't THAT interested as to talk more,,,,
then THEIR NOT INTERESTED,,,,wink,,so I SHOULDN'T be either,,,?

fastlinnie's photo
Sat 12/19/09 05:42 PM

I usually just go and make a sandwich and forget about it.
laugh laugh laugh

SitkaRains's photo
Sat 12/19/09 05:48 PM
I think there is no set rule, I have made friends with some wonderful people that well after a month of two of one line emails we finally starting talking...

FearandLoathing's photo
Sat 12/19/09 05:49 PM

If you see someone's face here, and then read their profile.
And then think and feel their just to cool,,and You feel they COULD-BE,,,someone that you could fall in love with,,maybe,wink,?

How much time and effort do YOU try to give them to feel that also?

How much do you apply yourself as to going after THEIR heart????


I don't feel that way about anyone, I've always figured that love is something you grow into with someone. Date them for awhile and if the spark ignites it flames up, if no spark ignites it is time to break it off. Obviously don't devote years to someone you simply are not feeling anything towards, I figure if after a few months and the spark is not there...move on...and don't kick yourself in the *** if they do the same thing.

Atlantis75's photo
Sat 12/19/09 05:51 PM
Sometimes I have to restrain myself to show more interest than I'm showing. Why? Because I'm not in a position to make a tighter relationship than a friendship, and fantasizing about someone who might not return the same amount of interest can lead to high blood pressure and sleepless nights.

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sat 12/19/09 05:54 PM

If you see someone's face here, and then read their profile.
And then think and feel their just to cool,,and You feel they COULD-BE,,,someone that you could fall in love with,,maybe,wink,?

How much time and effort do YOU try to give them to feel that also?

How much do you apply yourself as to going after THEIR heart????


None. It never works that way so I just don't bother.

IndnPrncs's photo
Sat 12/19/09 05:56 PM
I never think like that... It'd take a lot and a long time for my mind to ever go past "oh he's nice to talk to"...

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Sat 12/19/09 06:19 PM
I tried that approach twice T during my first yr.@ JSH w/ fellow writers.Care to guess what the outcome was? :wink: drinker




















whoa rofl slaphead

Time & experience @ the site has forced me re-evaluate & so I now use a much more conservative approach.If it happens then Woo-Hoo! If not.ohwell Godspeed!Cy ;)

Citizen_Joe's photo
Sat 12/19/09 06:29 PM
100% being willing to risk all. Yep, that about covers it, if you're going for a heart shot.

bigsmile

no photo
Sat 12/19/09 10:25 PM

I usually just go and make a sandwich and forget about it.


I'm having a sandwich right now!!!:banana: :banana: :banana: :banana:

Dan99's photo
Sat 12/19/09 10:28 PM

If you see someone's face here, and then read their profile.
And then think and feel their just to cool,,and You feel they COULD-BE,,,someone that you could fall in love with,,maybe,wink,?

How much time and effort do YOU try to give them to feel that also?

How much do you apply yourself as to going after THEIR heart????



none whatsoever, i just rely on my super-intelligent, witty and extremely sexy nature.



no photo
Sat 12/19/09 10:37 PM
I don't know, I can't imagine thinking all that just based on a pic. I decide if I like someone based on what they've said in the forums....

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