Topic: What is tolerance?
kariZman's photo
Fri 06/08/07 03:18 AM
tolerance +love =happy people.:wink: flowerforyou Andrea

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Fri 06/08/07 03:34 AM
Fredflowerforyou flowerforyou blushing

kidatheart70's photo
Fri 06/08/07 03:38 AM
hiya Freddrinker

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Fri 06/08/07 03:56 AM
which then leaves us with the next part of this question.....laugh


where are your boundaries of tolerance?
and how do you choose to act when they are crossed?



AH HA!!!


now THAT'S a different cookie!:wink:

kariZman's photo
Fri 06/08/07 04:01 AM
hi kid ,there is a low off the east coast of australia and its been
raining :smile: bigsmile happy there should be some good surf about
wetsuit weathergrumble butt if the waves are pumpin im out
there:smile:

Jess642's photo
Fri 06/08/07 04:01 AM
To step away, and look at how I may be seeing myself reflected back, in
that which I find intolerable.

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Fri 06/08/07 04:02 AM
That, my dear Alex, is the one I'm working on.

Intolerance triggers anger in me and I have to find out why.

Only when I can answer this question truthfully, can I go to the next
step.

Alex:heart: flowerforyou

kariZman's photo
Fri 06/08/07 04:03 AM
you wouldent slap me in chains if i had a bite of ya cookie would ya
Alex.

kidatheart70's photo
Fri 06/08/07 04:15 AM
Hi Lee, Alex!flowerforyou

mmmmmmmmm....cookielove

kariZman's photo
Fri 06/08/07 04:43 AM
flowerforyou Alex,anything that is done without love will turn
bitter.violence will breed violence hate will and so the list goes on.we
all view our realities through different eyes and watt we learn to
tolerate is different for us all.Tolerance;1 broard
mindedness,charity,fairness,forbearence,forgiveness,lenience, open
mindedness,openness,patience,permissiveness,2acceptance,sufferance,sympathy,understanding
if ya tolerant you just dont go causing trouble for anyone:smile:

kariZman's photo
Fri 06/08/07 04:57 AM
some people delight in pain and torture if thats watt people enjoy let
them do it to each other i would never submit to being tattoed some
people love being tattoed??

Jess642's photo
Fri 06/08/07 04:58 AM
I can tolerate so much, on a good day, from anyone anywhere within my
day to day life.

My boundaries are tight when it comes to violence, oppression, racism,
greed, power-filled people, who abuse their power for self serving
purposes, (elected governments, and their minions), at the expense of
innocent life. My boundaries are tight with senseless abuse of natural
resources.

When those boundaries are crossed, I find myself angered.

Channelling that anger into something productive, and pro-active, with
an outcome that is for the greater good, is what I strive for, and at
times fail miserably.

However, I am attempting to learn from these failings, and turn them
into acheivable and sometimes even successful outcomes.



kariZman's photo
Fri 06/08/07 05:05 AM
hi jess watt do ya do on ya bad days?flowerforyou

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Fri 06/08/07 05:11 AM
I think part of my anger stems from my experience with my exes.
Their need to be right all the time, the dominance they tried to get
over me.
I have been fighting that for so long, struggling to stand my ground, I
think I'm just tired of people telling me I'm wrong, no matter what. But
that is the deeper reason I suppose.
I can't tolerate violence either, too many people use it to get their
way, along with mentally blackmailing others into what they want.


And Fred, I have 2 tattoos, do you mind????smokin frown

Jess642's photo
Fri 06/08/07 05:18 AM
Hello Harry, Andrea, Fred, Alex.flowerforyou flowerforyou
flowerforyou flowerforyou (is almost a bouquet)

What do I do on a bad day Fred, here, in my day to day life?

laugh When I am at work in the office, I hang the "Office is
unattended sign, with a back on another day' sign on the door, and keep
my head down...either that, or someone gets told, exactly what I am
thinking..:wink:

kariZman's photo
Fri 06/08/07 05:26 AM
i love checking other peoples tattoes some are beautifull works of art
and can make a real statement for many people i dont mind em :smile:
needles freak me out i try to avoid pain.bigsmilewere do ya have ya
tatts and watt are they Andrea?

kariZman's photo
Fri 06/08/07 05:39 AM
well i think telling people watt ya think is a part of the big picture
for us when it comes to being tolerant i dont think its healthy for us
to bottle up emotion i always feel better when i get any shhiitt of my
chest oh i used to have an athlets chest its just slipped a tiny little
bitbigsmile go get em jess!

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Fri 06/08/07 05:43 AM
well, this is me and I leave it to you to guess where it is.

The other one is a unicorn on my anklebigsmile bigsmile

If I feel the anger coming, I just go away from where ever it triggers
me, lest I explode. I try to calm down a bit before I say anything,
otherwise I find myself caught up in an arguement that I don't need nor
want.frown

TheLonelyWalker's photo
Fri 06/08/07 05:45 AM
Tolerance is the fact that u accept your brother and sister even when
they don't believe in the smae thinsgs you do.
You display tolerance when you don't judge them for being what they are.

Regards.

TLW

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Fri 06/08/07 05:48 AM
Hello Miguel, my friendflowerforyou flowerforyou