Some of you may remember I posted about this relationship I had with this one man....It didn't go so well...I wanted more than he could give and frankly I think I was in love with a booty call. I ended up telling this booty call that I had feelings for him....well some time passed I stopped all contact with him and now hes calling me again.

My question is...his knowing how I feel about him...is he just calling for sex or does he want more? I know I know I should just ask him...but I wanted your opinions first.

I just wondered if men can be so cold as to do such a thing?

Yes we can. But we'll never admit it.

Once a Booty Call....always a Booty Call....he is just fishing to see if ya gonna give it up again!

so he won't buy the cow

but you're still giving him free milk?

LOL...I never said that! I do love him but I won't let him use me.

Yes!! run run run... he's couldn't give more then, it's not going to change...he's in a dry spell..and knows you had feelings... he's playing on that....Run run run...

was it hard to get over him and is it worth getting over him again?

Wow your probably right...I was hoping he missed me...

oh sorry

I reread it

you're not giving him free milk. but he is still calling hoping for a free glass

It's the damn upcoming holidays - enough to make you do dumb things to avoid being alone again....RUN and don't look back! You deserve so much more than 'booty call'......

So sorry ...here a hug..I know thats not what you wanted to hear.(((((hugs)))) you deserve so much better!

Its ok...I figured that was it...I just think its so low of him to prey on my feelings...I was just getting over him.

Probably? As in the sun will probably come up tomorrow? Focus on finding someone whose feelings above his waist exceed those below his waist. Good luck...and remember the L'Oreal cosmetics commercial...."I'm worth it!"

That's how they operate. Do not give in, you will only end up in more heartache in the end.

run girl run and never look back.u deserve so much better then that.

run! run as fast as you can!

Thank God I am a lesbian and don't have to put up with men!

You are a man! LOL...So tell me why men do this????

She very meekly asks...Is there any chance at all that he could have missed me?

Yes, and I am a lesbian as well. So back off!!!!!

Why do some men do it? Small chance he missed you, but mostly it comes down to wanting sex, and if you treated him so good, he misses that. But he won't change. That just rarely happens.