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Topic: Guy needs girl advice
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Fri 12/04/09 03:56 PM
Ok so there’s this girl that goes to the same class as I do in University. Anyways I was going to walk home by myself and this girl I noticed was walking to I asked her if she was in my class and she said yes. So we both walked together and we really had a interesting conversation. It got to the point where her house was one direction and mine the other. So I said bye and I went my way and she went her way. I wanted to keep talking to her so but I didn’t ask to go to her place she’ll think I’m a creep or something. Anyways I really like this girl and I’m thinking how long should I know her before I ask her out?

newarkjw's photo
Fri 12/04/09 03:59 PM
Maybe you could pass her a note in class.........smokin

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Fri 12/04/09 04:01 PM

Maybe you could pass her a note in class.........smokin



my class has like 100 people in it.

newarkjw's photo
Fri 12/04/09 04:02 PM


Maybe you could pass her a note in class.........smokin



my class has like 100 people in it.



Good lord I was kidding ask her out already........smokin

silly's photo
Fri 12/04/09 04:04 PM
u can always just ask her out for a cup of coffee.

tanyaann's photo
Fri 12/04/09 04:05 PM
Well, if had a nice conversation and would like to get to know her better.... next time you see her out of class... tell her that you had a nice time talking with her... and see if she wants to go get coffee and talk some more. If she say yes and coffee goes well, then at the end of that ask her if she would like to do something like dinner or musuem or something.

Best wishes!

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Fri 12/04/09 04:06 PM

Ok so there’s this girl that goes to the same class as I do in University. Anyways I was going to walk home by myself and this girl I noticed was walking to I asked her if she was in my class and she said yes. So we both walked together and we really had a interesting conversation. It got to the point where her house was one direction and mine the other. So I said bye and I went my way and she went her way. I wanted to keep talking to her so but I didn’t ask to go to her place she’ll think I’m a creep or something. Anyways I really like this girl and I’m thinking how long should I know her before I ask her out?


I would not wait long, you may lose your chance if you wait. Go for it and good luck.

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Fri 12/04/09 04:13 PM
If you are getting a vibe from her -- go for it! winking

Don't wait too long, however, women lose interest if a guy is too passive. We like confident men! :thumbsup:


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Fri 12/04/09 04:52 PM

If you are getting a vibe from her -- go for it! winking

Don't wait too long, however, women lose interest if a guy is too passive. We like confident men! :thumbsup:




I'm wondering should I walk her home next time?

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Fri 12/04/09 04:55 PM


If you are getting a vibe from her -- go for it! winking

Don't wait too long, however, women lose interest if a guy is too passive. We like confident men! :thumbsup:




I'm wondering should I walk her home next time?



why not? especially if the conversation is great, she will probably be glad to have the company.

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Fri 12/04/09 04:56 PM


If you are getting a vibe from her -- go for it! winking

Don't wait too long, however, women lose interest if a guy is too passive. We like confident men! :thumbsup:




I'm wondering should I walk her home next time?


yes.

SitkaRains's photo
Fri 12/04/09 05:01 PM
I have to agree with the consensus here, if you like her and want to spend time with her. Make it a point to see her after class and ask her for a cup or coffee or whatever.

Nothing ventured nothing gained.

Good luck

sun_devil_92's photo
Fri 12/04/09 05:09 PM
Even though I'm not a girl, I play one on TV ... (WAIT! ... that didn't come out right ...)

Seriously, I agree with the below - after all, you already are living the results to the answer "no", so do some actions so you have a chance.

Nothing ventured nothing gained.

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Fri 12/04/09 07:32 PM



If you are getting a vibe from her -- go for it! winking

Don't wait too long, however, women lose interest if a guy is too passive. We like confident men! :thumbsup:




I'm wondering should I walk her home next time?


yes.


Ok I'll man up and walk her home question is should I go in with her?

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Fri 12/04/09 07:35 PM




If you are getting a vibe from her -- go for it! winking

Don't wait too long, however, women lose interest if a guy is too passive. We like confident men! :thumbsup:




I'm wondering should I walk her home next time?


yes.


Ok I'll man up and walk her home question is should I go in with her?



if she invites you in, just start with the walking her home and then just go with the flow

wux's photo
Sat 12/05/09 10:08 AM
Ask her to marry you and/or have your children.

Girls love that.

icecream21's photo
Sat 12/05/09 10:16 AM
Just don't do anything. Ignore her and act like she doesn't exist. That makes girls think your challenging.

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Sat 12/05/09 10:17 AM

Well, if had a nice conversation and would like to get to know her better.... next time you see her out of class... tell her that you had a nice time talking with her... and see if she wants to go get coffee and talk some more. If she say yes and coffee goes well, then at the end of that ask her if she would like to do something like dinner or museum or something.

Best wishes!

:thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup:


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Sat 12/05/09 10:18 AM
Yeah asking women advice on women? I don't know if that works out so well considering they usually speak womanese and we can't understand them anyways. Don't buy into the whole girls like nice guys buddy it will lead to pain and suffering trust me! Be bold and direct with a level of charm and sencerity and just ask her out! Good luck!

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Sat 12/05/09 10:39 AM
I know your looking for a woman's advise, but all should be considered. I know Im always asking for womens advice but doesnt always work out as they advised.
Personal experiance has taught me, dont be rude about it but dont seem eager either. Women are competitive and hate to lose. Show her you are interested but act like if shes not interested in you, its her loss bucause you have 10 more to hang out with. Dont tell her she should be honored to hang out with you, let her think that.
Keep in mind and have the attitude that you are " the man".

Just go with the flow bud and if it doesn't work out in your favor, HER LOSS.. not yours.

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