Has anyone been in this situation, where the other person doesn't want you but won't let go completely because he/she doesn't want you to move on? If so, how did you handle it.

Just disappear. Move get a cell phone unlisted number.

And move on, don't look behind you.When there is a will there is a way...

I was married for seven years to an alcoholic/drug addict/bipolar person and they put me through hell! He would say that he didn't want me one day, then want me the next. Finally I had to get a restraining order and file for divorce! If you can't be yourself and have someone who is happy with that, then you can find another person that will be ok with it and really start to love life. There are so many people in this world, why make yourself miserable being with one that doesn't want to be with you?

My problem is a little different, I have some female friends & they have some single friends but when I express interest in one of them these girls screw it up for me!

I've never had that problem, but I agree with the advice others have given you, just leave and don't look back.

I did leave MONTHS AGO, I even left the State and when I found out he did also, I came back and have happily moved on, he just can't accept that. Well, all I have to say to him is "I couldn't and wasn't going to accept your lying and cheating anymore." He is with someone else and thats fine with me!! I told him "she can have ya, tell I wish HER luck, she's gonna need it"

Sorry, my mistake, I thought it was a "herpes" thread.

Hmmm...I have a friend...well, an acquaintance, in Philly...Tony "Louisville Slugger" Califano...AKA
"Tony the Whacker"...AKA "Tony Bada Bing Bada Boom"...AKA "Tony the Persuader." He gets out again in 6 months...email me...I'll give you his cell number...well, make that his mobile number!

Yeah I have had this happen, I cut all ties to the person, then when they kept trying to make contact. I told them two words
Restraining Order and did it Problem solved..

Sometimes that is the only thing these people will ever get

So who is the one that is having trouble letting go?

Someone who won't take no for and answer is someone to steer clear of. And not goad with insults because they can turn out to be dangerous. Stop all contact and move on with your life.

I told my ex wife I was gay. She left me alone and moved on after that.

I suppose that might do it....

RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Get away from him and be happy somewhere else. I still have an ex who insists upon making my life hell if I meet someone. She doesn't want me to be happy with anyone else. I think if she was the only one I was happy with, then she won the trophy.

I personally am glad that some other poor sucker is having to deal with some of my former flakes.

I let em know....."I want you to be happy and I am glad that you found someone that can make you smile.....I wish you all the best"

translation........"Go make that other idiot miserable you psychotic skank. You're his problem now....Leave me the hell alone!"

Often people want to have there cake and eat it too! People who trully understand that a loving long lasting relationship comes with commitment are keepers. The people who only see a relationship as a one way venture are the ones that are poison. The problem is i think half the population is in one category and the other half in the other. You have to just be strong and wait wait for that one!

When I read a thread like this, I always think of the words Glenn Close's character said in Fatal Attraction...."I'm not gonna be ignored!"