Why does it seem like guys can call or text when they'd like but if you do it...then you're smothering them? So, how much contact is too much contact?

Whatever he says is acceptable.

you mean whatever she says is acceptable

It varies person to person. I enjoy hearing from my gf anytime, but all guys are not like that.

Welcome to Mingle2. As with so many questions asked here, it all depends on the 2 people involved. Perhaps make it a topic of conversation in a non confrontational kind of way.

Actually, I let the guy do all the contacting, it's easier that way.

I enjoy reaching out

(oh you meant texting et al)

yeah what Call said

Any more than two texts or one call per day and i file a complaint with the police for harrassment

I'm glad you are enjoying this PATSFAN. Maybe it's just me but it seems like we can't win for losing. You call/text too much or too little. I'm realizing that this question is probably making me look like a stalker...lol. DEFINITELY NOT!! I'm just confused I guess!

Hey Pats, save me a little, this might get interesting.........I think she's stalking someone!

I've always enjoyed hearing from my girl friends, no matter how many times the contacted me unless I was extremely busy but I would have told them prior to that, I'm generally very in tune with my girl friends

If he tells you it's too much, it's too much.

If you tell him it's too little, it's too little.

Here's a thought. How about not relying on a phone to make a relationship something it isn't? Just me? Okay then.

Okay then.

I bought pizza for everyone

If a man or anyone says you call or text to much it is time to stop.

I hate when people do it to me.

You always ask when is a good time. If they do not give an approximate time in the day then they probably do not want you to call or text.

Example. I would like to talk with you some today if you have the time.
What would be a good time for you?

If they give you one great, if they say "I dunno" or let me call/text you instead. Then don't bother.

You are smothering or bothering them.

I had a dude text me constantly...then call when I don't reply to his texts. It's crazy! Not to mention that I don't have unlimited text messaging. I tried to tell the guy, but he kept on texting. I had to break ties with him. That was ridiculous.

Just how cold are you?