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ugg...my pic don't work...grrrr
ta hell with it... I guess I would be asking you first how many txt in a day do you send him? and how many does he respond to? If he is only respondig to half your txt...then he probably wants you to knock off half of what your txting to him per day. Or simply ask him how much is too much...I'm kinda blunt like that..I wanna know whats up and what the heck I'm doing wrong. I would talk to him about it. |
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I'm glad you are enjoying this PATSFAN.  Maybe it's just me but it seems like we can't win for losing. You call/text too much or too little. I'm realizing that this question is probably making me look like a stalker...lol. DEFINITELY NOT!! I'm just confused I guess!
Welcome and just remember men are not our girlfriends, they do not need to hear every single detail of our day all day long. Men are just different from us in this respect. Ask him when is a good time to call and then unless it is an emergency call during that time or times. If you are calling too little, it is better than calling to often. |
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Here's a thought. How about not relying on a phone to make a relationship something it isn't? Just me? Okay then. Just how cold are you? Oh you think that's cold? How's the guy you emailed 3 times since last night that isn't responding??? Fine, let everyone carry on their cyber romances and have text babies...because texting is so much more better and less accountable than say actually talking face to face and being needy to have to constantly let someone know every little detail of your mundane life. Let's all have twitter relationships cause I really want to know that you just took a crap. So fine, keep texting away. |
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Generally I don't like to use the phone, don't text, so it isn't a problem for me. Generally in relationships I let the guy take the lead. If he calls me I will call him back. I generally take a que about how serious a person is about me as to how often they want to communicate. If they don't plan contact in the future I figure they have little interest. Men usually are aware enough that if a woman is desireable to them, she is probably desireable to others, and will make their interest clear.
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If meeting someone new....If I call, e/mail, text someone, it's for a reason.If I don't hear a reply with in 24 hrs.(And thats being fair) revolving file it go's.Works for me.
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I agree with you but what can you do when they aren't telling you that its too much? It's not as though I was contacting him non stop. We would keep texting back and forth.
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Here's a thought. How about not relying on a phone to make a relationship something it isn't? Just me? Okay then. Just how cold are you? Oh you think that's cold? How's the guy you emailed 3 times since last night that isn't responding??? Fine, let everyone carry on their cyber romances and have text babies...because texting is so much more better and less accountable than say actually talking face to face and being needy to have to constantly let someone know every little detail of your mundane life. Let's all have twitter relationships cause I really want to know that you just took a crap. So fine, keep texting away. I'm not trying to tick anyone off but what are you doing right now? This isn't much different than texting. We never said we were having cyber romances either. AND you have no idea who we are so get off of the soap box and join a different conversation. |
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Here's a thought. How about not relying on a phone to make a relationship something it isn't? Just me? Okay then. Just how cold are you? Oh you think that's cold? How's the guy you emailed 3 times since last night that isn't responding??? Fine, let everyone carry on their cyber romances and have text babies...because texting is so much more better and less accountable than say actually talking face to face and being needy to have to constantly let someone know every little detail of your mundane life. Let's all have twitter relationships cause I really want to know that you just took a crap. So fine, keep texting away. 
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Generally I don't like to use the phone, don't text, so it isn't a problem for me. Generally in relationships I let the guy take the lead. If he calls me I will call him back. I generally take a que about how serious a person is about me as to how often they want to communicate. If they don't plan contact in the future I figure they have little interest. Men usually are aware enough that if a woman is desireable to them, she is probably desireable to others, and will make their interest clear. Exactly. 
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I agree with you but what can you do when they aren't telling you that its too much? It's not as though I was contacting him non stop. We would keep texting back and forth.
If you email a guy and give him a few days to respond, and he never responds, don't email him again. If you call a guy and you give him a couple days to call you back and he never does, don't call him back. I've learned that people don't always say what they want, but they figure actions speak louder than words (which they do) so you're supposed to read their signals. Some people are good at this, some people suck at it, and therein lies the problem. Some men like constant contact, some don't. Basically, you need to learn what your guy likes and then act accordingly. I asked a guy once if I was mailing him too much, he said no, problem solved. Communication is key in any relationship; if you really want to know how much is too much, just ask him.
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