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Topic: Is Love Selfish?
MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 11/28/09 06:45 PM

:heart:When you feel you cant love someone as much as they love you,is it right to let them go so they can find someone that they deserve,or is love selfish?:heart:

PATSFAN's photo
Sat 11/28/09 06:47 PM
:heart: Someone should love you as much as you love them:heart:

laughsandgiggles's photo
Sat 11/28/09 06:51 PM
Love isn't selfish- People are selfish

and if you don't love someone as much as they love you- it is the right thing to tell them and to let them make the decision to stay or go. Honesty is always the best way to go! jmo:heart:

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 11/28/09 06:54 PM

:heart: Someone should love you as much as you love them:heart:
:thumbsup:

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sat 11/28/09 06:54 PM

:heart: Someone should love you as much as you love them:heart:


How would you actually KNOW that??

It's unrealistic to think that, even though you know how you feel, you could actually ever know the depth of their feelings.

You either take their word for it, or you don't.

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 11/28/09 06:54 PM

Love isn't selfish- People are selfish

and if you don't love someone as much as they love you- it is the right thing to tell them and to let them make the decision to stay or go. Honesty is always the best way to go! jmo:heart:
flowerforyou

misstina2's photo
Sat 11/28/09 06:59 PM
:heart: love is putting the other persons needs ahead of yours:heart: being selfish is only caring about your needssmokin

catseyes1's photo
Sat 11/28/09 07:00 PM

:heart: Someone should love you as much as you love them:heart:


flowers :thumbsup:

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 11/28/09 07:18 PM


:heart: Someone should love you as much as you love them:heart:


How would you actually KNOW that??

It's unrealistic to think that, even though you know how you feel, you could actually ever know the depth of their feelings.

You either take their word for it, or you don't.
flowerforyou

Down2earthdebbie's photo
Sat 11/28/09 07:27 PM
Well it depends on if you have kids & why they feel that way? spock

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 11/28/09 07:31 PM

:heart: love is putting the other persons needs ahead of yours:heart: being selfish is only caring about your needssmokin
flowerforyou

PATSFAN's photo
Sat 11/28/09 07:39 PM


:heart: Someone should love you as much as you love them:heart:


How would you actually KNOW that??

It's unrealistic to think that, even though you know how you feel, you could actually ever know the depth of their feelings.

You either take their word for it, or you don't.




You are unrealistic thinking you are a cat:tongue:

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 11/28/09 08:06 PM

Well it depends on if you have kids & why they feel that way? spock
flowerforyou

cherie091279's photo
Sat 11/28/09 08:19 PM

:heart: love is putting the other persons needs ahead of yours:heart: being selfish is only caring about your needssmokin


:thumbsup: so very true

franshade's photo
Sat 11/28/09 08:22 PM
love is not selfish, people are

:heart:

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 11/28/09 09:27 PM

love is not selfish, people are

:heart:
flowerforyou

no photo
Sat 11/28/09 10:22 PM
Pfffft, that's when you tie him up and throw him in the chair and say b!tch, you're gonna love me whether you like it or not!!!!

Or something to that effect.....

msharmony's photo
Sat 11/28/09 11:25 PM
selfish is thinking ONLY of yourself, not thinking of yourself first

Love is putting others needs next to yours,,they should be just as important but not more important,,,imho

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sun 11/29/09 12:29 AM



:heart: Someone should love you as much as you love them:heart:


How would you actually KNOW that??

It's unrealistic to think that, even though you know how you feel, you could actually ever know the depth of their feelings.

You either take their word for it, or you don't.




You are unrealistic thinking you are a cat:tongue:


Don't make me treat you like a mouse, dude. LOL

Ladylid2012's photo
Sun 11/29/09 12:53 AM
Obviously some people's love is selfish, the divorce rate is up to 60% now.
Seems many are selfish in their love, which wouldn't really be love now would it?

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