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Topic: why are you on
Atlantis75's photo
Fri 11/20/09 03:24 PM
stealth mode on mingle?

I can understand your reason if you aren't looking for anyone, but other who are actively searching or wanting a relationship, it hurts your chances, because if you view someone's profile , he or she will never know that you showed some interest. I usually reply or nudge those who view my profile.

motowndowntown's photo
Fri 11/20/09 03:27 PM
Because I'm an internet ninja.

italio69's photo
Fri 11/20/09 03:27 PM
maybe they are seperated or married

Sneaksintoyourheart's photo
Fri 11/20/09 03:29 PM
Cause I wanna be bigsmile

matt_1959's photo
Fri 11/20/09 03:32 PM

Cause I wanna be bigsmile

sneeky pun intended

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Fri 11/20/09 03:33 PM

maybe they are seperated or married


I am neither. I am just nosy. It's fun to read profiles, but I don't want it to be construed as interest.

Atlantis75's photo
Fri 11/20/09 03:33 PM
when women who say that they are dying to be in a relationship and yet they remain on stealth mode, it makes me suspicious. Maybe others don't but I get suspicious immediately.

MelodyGirl's photo
Fri 11/20/09 03:38 PM
I'm never in stealth. If I view a profile, I want the person to know I perved them! pitchfork

Sneaksintoyourheart's photo
Fri 11/20/09 03:38 PM

when women who say that they are dying to be in a relationship and yet they remain on stealth mode, it makes me suspicious. Maybe others don't but I get suspicious immediately.
i think most do it cause they dont want people to know they were looking at them an if they wanted them to know they would email them. me i do cause i just wanna do it an don't want a few people to know that im on when i'm on

freeonthree's photo
Fri 11/20/09 03:39 PM

stealth mode on mingle?

I can understand your reason if you aren't looking for anyone, but other who are actively searching or wanting a relationship, it hurts your chances, because if you view someone's profile , he or she will never know that you showed some interest. I usually reply or nudge those who view my profile.


Example: I have an artifical leg, I may think someone looks nice, and decide to look further, just to find out her life revolves around hiking, dancing, long walks, and riding her bicycle. lol

chickayoshi's photo
Fri 11/20/09 03:39 PM
I go on stealth mode because I don't want members to know I viewed them. Now, if I am interested in a guy, I will go off stealth mode and view their page. That way, they know I was interested to view their page. But I like stealth mode. Sometimes I don't want to be bothered when I am online.

freeonthree's photo
Fri 11/20/09 03:40 PM


maybe they are seperated or married


I am neither. I am just nosy. It's fun to read profiles, but I don't want it to be construed as interest.


Thats what I should have said...

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Fri 11/20/09 03:40 PM


..god forbid if your my age and look at a younger womans profile..the next thread winds up being something like...YUK an old geezer just perved me....:laughing:

freeonthree's photo
Fri 11/20/09 03:43 PM



..god forbid if your my age and look at a younger womans profile..the next thread winds up being something like...YUK an old geezer just perved me....:laughing:


Thats a very good point, Im old, but not dead. :smile:

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Fri 11/20/09 03:48 PM

stealth mode on mingle?

I can understand your reason if you aren't looking for anyone, but other who are actively searching or wanting a relationship, it hurts your chances, because if you view someone's profile , he or she will never know that you showed some interest. I usually reply or nudge those who view my profile.
It's a way of looking and not being looked at and if you're interested then go off and let them know you've seen them, it's like secret cruising......pitchfork

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Fri 11/20/09 03:53 PM
I blame it all on my poor memory... Can't remember profiles so I go back and re-read em ohwell

Goofball73's photo
Fri 11/20/09 04:58 PM

I'm never in stealth. If I view a profile, I want the person to know I perved them! pitchfork


"sigh"...and if the person keeps perving your profile? I mean...come on Melody...stop perving me...I feel violated.:tongue: :tongue: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

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Fri 11/20/09 05:33 PM
scared I always feel like...somebody's watchin' me scared

chickayoshi's photo
Fri 11/20/09 05:36 PM

scared I always feel like...somebody's watchin' me scared


Tell me who's watching.


greeneyedlady42's photo
Fri 11/20/09 05:42 PM
I have asked the same question.
Now, I have looked at someones profile and gone stealth to go back to maybe re-read something I liked with out making that person feel stalked but I like people to be able to see when Im online or when I last logged in too.


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