What Oceans said is spot on. :)

SheNerd :)

Hello????? Does anyone ever read what I say???? Another IM coming in
without a Email first!!!

i agree with u Gypsy...plus friends requests of people i don't know and
have never talked to before

the sexual innuendo is getting old too

Thanks, SheNerd

I have to admit I don't understand the sexual innuendo, whether it is
coming from men or women... Is it really supposed to be attractive, or
provocative?


Oceans

Hi Oceans,

I'm afraid I don't understand it either. Maybe some think it's funny
and it is to a point, but beyond that, it gets a little too graphic for
this old lady. :)

Shenerd :)

I am enjoying this site a lot. The intelligence, caring, and laughter
along with friendships is easy to see. I try hard to ignore the ones who
like to be mean. Seen enough meanness, and hate in this world, I come on
here to make friends, and to share laughter,and caring.

I rarely receive email, and so far only two ims. They came to a stop
quickly when I said straight out Not interested in cyber, or phone sex.

Snuggles, that is exactly how I feel about it. :)

SheNerd I saw in another post that you play word whomp, have you tried
Greedy Words yet?

Sure this is off topic, but what other way to chat besides posting?

Hi Snuggles,

No, I haven't tried it yet, I just got home from work, will have to take
a crack at it this evening. Thanks for the tip. :)

Best wishes from SheNerd :)

Hi JSH,

Site grow just like people do. During that growth your going to see
growing pains. People leaving and people staying. Every time someone new
joins the entire site changes a little. This is just a part of life.
Mike and Van have provided us with a great place to learn more about
each other. We can choose to focus on the negative or we can choose to
be positive people. Either way we all as humans have to take 100%
responsibility for our own actions. To try to shift the blame anywhere
else or at any body as an individual, instead of dealing with things
according to the fair rules that we have here is merely a reflection of
who we are.

JSH is great, and it is our job to keep the integrity intact. If this
means pushing a button or sending an email off to Mike than that sounds
like an easy way to fix some of the growing pains.

As I watch the site I see it go from serious one moment to light hearted
the next. Doesn't this sound familiar. That is how we are as people. JSH
is going to follow the mood swings that we put forth on it. I say thank
God we have a place that moves with the moods of the people on it.

Some nights JSH is a place of prayer, and reaching out. Other nights
it's like silly-town. That's how people are.


michael

Once you have created and action, you have chosen a
consequence........iggy the jerks and let mike and van know so they can
take care of it. Otherwise, love the site as we all do. It will flow as
it does........I agree with the above although I may not be a eloquent.
This a place I love.

i got a friend request from a girl who liked my profile and i added her
but when i went to email to say hi,surprise ...."to email this user.u
must meet the followin criteria""...blah blah.why send a friend requesat
when u know full well i cant email you.....please dont send me friend
requests so that your profile looks good....the friends i do actually
have on my list are the ones i do talk too and love and allow me to
email them!!!!

SheNerds, Oceans, and Amanda,

Are you talking about sexual innuendo in private email, or in the
forums?

I was referring to innuendo in the Forums....

I don't much care what people do privately.


Oceans

mg that is a fantastic way to put it.

Where is there games???


If you have your pop up blocker set so the lil box drops down all you
gotta do is copy the name, say no, paste the name see if you would
like to talk to this person,
If so then send a note saying Hi, sorry I don't IM unless I've noted
with a person first.. & they always write back all sweet..

Sassy, to get around any blocked mail you can send a friends request
with a note on it. even if their on your list i think.

that kind i would just delete, cuz she wasnt somebody you talked to...

I second what Oceans said. Private e mails are between the people who
send them.

Oceans & SheNerd,

My question was not phrased well - of course you guys don't care what
other people say to each other in private mail. But maybe, like me,
you had received unsolicited sexually offensive email. In any case,
now I understand your concern is in the forum, regardless.