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Topic: Is Love Misleading
MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 11/17/09 05:18 AM
:heart: Is love misleading? :heart:

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italio69's photo
Tue 11/17/09 05:33 AM
e.depends,and f.other meaning sometimes

italio69's photo
Tue 11/17/09 05:33 AM
e.depends,and f.other meaning sometimes

msharmony's photo
Tue 11/17/09 05:52 AM
NO, but people in search of it often are.

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 11/17/09 05:55 AM

e.depends,and f.other meaning sometimes
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MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 11/17/09 05:55 AM

NO, but people in search of it often are.
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Gator76's photo
Tue 11/17/09 06:16 AM
It's not so much that love misleads. Rather, I believe we find it difficult to follow the path at times. We are complex as individuals....rife with the good and not-so-good qualities...that define us. When you add another individual you add further complexity...almost a geometric progression. Then, perhaps over time you experience relationships that leave their marks. So, maybe you become more cautious...more guarded...more suspicious. Our lives are hundreds of overlays of events and emotions...of learned and involuntary responses that make us both vulnerable and bold. All very natural, just the mind's way of protecting the heart! No one has the answer for all of us. If so, we'd all be happy at the same time! laugh Consider yourself fortunate if you have the answer for you...and the one you love! Maybe love IS a constant path that we simply have difficulty navigating because we are who we are...human...people who make mistakes sometimes and get it right sometimes. Maybe it takes every fiber of what we are to sort things out and stay on the path...and still a measure of luck, too. Like most of us...I'm trying. Right now, that path seems so obvious for me and the one I love. At least we know there are twists and turns. Still, I wouldn't want it any other way...the pain is worth the gain. :heart:

AGoodGuy1026's photo
Tue 11/17/09 07:03 AM
D. never

IMHO - love in and of itself is never mis-leading.. I think in some situations we simply mis-lead ourselves away from reality...

It is difficult to admit to yourself what you want is not what is happening... or what you are receiving, or what you are giving... separating lonliness from love...

It is what it is (love)... it's all in how we see it, deal with it, are real with it (or not)... what we hold on to, what we let go of...

Me? I am always open to love, willing to give and receive -- but I will not settle... it never works out in the end.. :)

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MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 11/17/09 10:19 AM

It's not so much that love misleads. Rather, I believe we find it difficult to follow the path at times. We are complex as individuals....rife with the good and not-so-good qualities...that define us. When you add another individual you add further complexity...almost a geometric progression. Then, perhaps over time you experience relationships that leave their marks. So, maybe you become more cautious...more guarded...more suspicious. Our lives are hundreds of overlays of events and emotions...of learned and involuntary responses that make us both vulnerable and bold. All very natural, just the mind's way of protecting the heart! No one has the answer for all of us. If so, we'd all be happy at the same time! laugh Consider yourself fortunate if you have the answer for you...and the one you love! Maybe love IS a constant path that we simply have difficulty navigating because we are who we are...human...people who make mistakes sometimes and get it right sometimes. Maybe it takes every fiber of what we are to sort things out and stay on the path...and still a measure of luck, too. Like most of us...I'm trying. Right now, that path seems so obvious for me and the one I love. At least we know there are twists and turns. Still, I wouldn't want it any other way...the pain is worth the gain. :heart:
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MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 11/17/09 10:19 AM

D. never

IMHO - love in and of itself is never mis-leading.. I think in some situations we simply mis-lead ourselves away from reality...

It is difficult to admit to yourself what you want is not what is happening... or what you are receiving, or what you are giving... separating lonliness from love...

It is what it is (love)... it's all in how we see it, deal with it, are real with it (or not)... what we hold on to, what we let go of...

Me? I am always open to love, willing to give and receive -- but I will not settle... it never works out in the end.. :)

drinker
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MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 11/17/09 11:55 AM
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Tue 11/17/09 12:01 PM
always, if by misleading you mean unintentional. you never intentionally fall in love with another person, that burden falls on them and not you. so is it misleading that you can fall in love with some one who is only contending to their flow of reality? even unintentionally, is still misleading.

PATSFAN's photo
Tue 11/17/09 12:46 PM
Family = D

Everything else = A

misstina2's photo
Tue 11/17/09 12:55 PM
b:heart: you never really know if someone feels the same or if their feelings will fade:heart:

Atlantis75's photo
Tue 11/17/09 12:56 PM
People are misleading and those who interpret the lust as love. The rest are just confused or have no idea.

RoamingOrator's photo
Tue 11/17/09 01:01 PM
F. Other

Love only misleads those who fall in love easily. Some of us, well, we wear the old heart on the sleeve, and let anyone who wants to blow their nose on it.

Those of whom it takes a long time for them to actually feel love, well, they only rarely get mislead. Downside is, sometimes it takes to long for them to realize it, and then, when it's too late, they feel that love decieve them.

Love is just more proof that the "powers at be" don't know what they are doing.

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 11/17/09 01:07 PM

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Tue 11/17/09 01:27 PM
D. No never. Love the pic above

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 11/17/09 08:07 PM

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 11/17/09 08:07 PM

D. No never. Love the pic above
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