I'm kinda tried of the whole search/mail/no response thing lol. I know that women tend to get ALOT of mail, but how often do you all search profiles? On the few sites I'm on, women seldom (but do) contact me. Do you ever not mail a guy you are interested in for any reason?

I don't search profiles but I know quite a few women that do and some that make first contact as well..

Welcome to mingle and the downside to internet dating

I don't search too often, usually hang out in the forums and post in there and get to know folks.

If I did run across an interesting profile, I'd send him a note.

Hang in there

i dont really search profiles, i talk to people that are on the forums also...made some fun connections that way.....welcome and have fun!!

I browse profiles sometimes posting more will possibly gain interest good luck

I look at the profiles and often find many I think sound interesting but I do not respond because of something in there that I feel I do not match up to...for example....if a profile says they only like thin women...I am not going to reply because I have a few extra pounds or if it says they like to drink alot and I rarely drink or if they do not smoke and although I am trying to quit I still smoke...things like that....However, if someone sends me a message I always respond, that just seems like good manners to me.

I am leaving soon but I do wish you well in your search!

Hi and welcome!

I email, search, and try to be as proactive as possible.

Wow thanks for all the responses! It seems I need to continue with the searches lol. Best of luck to you all!

they are tonight

20 women emailed me in 5 minutes already

Wow thanks for all the responses! It seems I need to continue with the searches lol. Best of luck to you all!

Wow thanks for all the responses! It seems I need to continue with the searches lol. Best of luck to you all!

Is that all, I cant keep up with all the emails I get.

pfft....I talk to everyone, but then again I have a motor mouth

I am new..so I looked at everything...but normally

I just post and get to know people..I will add that

I am not bashful if I see something interesting...

I perv profiles a lot...I just need to remember to put stealth on when I do

I do, too.
The only time I don't respond is when someone is like 20+ years older than me and is doing some heavy flirting with me.

I search profile, as well as come here and read posts.And do reply to e/mails.Also chatted with a few.A lot depends on what their profile states.And having a pic helps also.

what!? i never get these... kinda jealous..

Here is a valid tip bro. Hang out in the various forums and occasionally throw in your two cents. This not only let's ladies get to know you before engaging in conversation......it also lends a bit of familiarity when they start seeing you around.

Believe me my man.....initially I couldn't get the time of day around here. Now that people know that I am insane....I get to talk, laugh and cry with some of the hottest ladies on the internet....(I haven't got nekid with all of them yet but, Rome wasn't built in a day)

Anyway, just be you bro and don't give up. It' an attrition thing.

I used to search and email until I found the man that I am in love with...now I'm just here for friends.