Topic: Frustrating Relationship..just wanna scream
dbh1966's photo
Sat 11/14/09 11:34 PM
http://www.neaq.org/education_and_activities/games_and_activities/activities/counting_the_fish_in_the_sea.php

laugh laugh Look how many there are.

TNLakeLady's photo
Sat 11/14/09 11:39 PM

http://www.neaq.org/education_and_activities/games_and_activities/activities/counting_the_fish_in_the_sea.php

laugh laugh Look how many there are.


Hilarious..rofl

richardleffler's photo
Sat 11/14/09 11:41 PM
hi

dbh1966's photo
Sat 11/14/09 11:49 PM
Normally if a relationship is that difficult its not worth it or even right. Especially if your being strung along cause he's trying to find something he can't really have.. Or maybe till its on his terms. More than likely he is the kinda dude that wants what he can't have and He and treats the ones he can have poorly or he stops pursuing them when he knows the chase is over. Games are deceptive and a waste of time.


dbh1966's photo
Sat 11/14/09 11:57 PM
Ha I just saw your profile and your gorgeous and he's nuts!laugh

TNLakeLady's photo
Sun 11/15/09 12:55 AM

Ha I just saw your profile and your gorgeous and he's nuts!laugh

Thanks for the advice...and for the complimentblushing

irisheyes79's photo
Mon 11/16/09 04:12 PM
you're wasting you're time sweetie get out and like yesterday

TNLakeLady's photo
Mon 11/16/09 05:47 PM
Everyone seems to think so..don't know what I am holding on to..Thanks for the advice..flowerforyou

irisheyes79's photo
Mon 11/16/09 05:56 PM
no prob , this is someone who has been there and done that drinks

ledi180's photo
Mon 11/16/09 06:09 PM
No, it's MY ex she's dating laugh Glad to know I'm not in the boat alone bigsmile


OMG you're dating my ex!scared best of luck to you

TNLakeLady's photo
Mon 11/16/09 06:20 PM

no prob , this is someone who has been there and done that drinks


Oh no..sorry hun..I hate that for you..and anyone else that has had to deal with this..

Im meeting him tomorrow to talk it over going to lay the cards on the table and will probably not like the answer, but gotta let go sometime..

kc0003's photo
Mon 11/16/09 06:23 PM
sounds like he is holding out to see if he can do better and if not he will call you with some kind of b/s...move on before you get too involved...

TNLakeLady's photo
Mon 11/16/09 06:35 PM

sounds like he is holding out to see if he can do better and if not he will call you with some kind of b/s...move on before you get too involved...

Probably is..you can never please some men..they will look around no matter what..grass is always greener..lol

kc0003's photo
Mon 11/16/09 06:41 PM


sounds like he is holding out to see if he can do better and if not he will call you with some kind of b/s...move on before you get too involved...

Probably is..you can never please some men..they will look around no matter what..grass is always greener..lol






yes it seems that way...till winter comes back around and then it browns again...

TNLakeLady's photo
Mon 11/16/09 06:44 PM



sounds like he is holding out to see if he can do better and if not he will call you with some kind of b/s...move on before you get too involved...

Probably is..you can never please some men..they will look around no matter what..grass is always greener..lol






yes it seems that way...till winter comes back around and then it browns again...


That is a great way to look at it..:thumbsup:

no photo
Mon 11/16/09 06:44 PM
Sounds like your plans of having time off at the same time upset his plans. Probably thought he could get a bit of time with you and the rest of his time with someone else.
You caught him off guard and he is scrambling.

TNLakeLady's photo
Mon 11/16/09 06:48 PM

Sounds like your plans of having time off at the same time upset his plans. Probably thought he could get a bit of time with you and the rest of his time with someone else.
You caught him off guard and he is scrambling.

Could be.. not sure.. he was the one that initiated and said that he was off for 3 days..but..I will have to see how it goes when i call him on it..

irisheyes79's photo
Tue 11/17/09 01:37 PM
some poeple do weird stuff and he is prolly full of himself and doesnt think he'd get caught if he is double dipping lol

aladytoo's photo
Wed 11/18/09 11:31 AM
I have been threw same thing with someone I cared about...Hun he's playing a game.Doesn't want the strings... and if you want a healthy relationship move on.I'm guessing your far much better then he deserves!!

lilith401's photo
Wed 11/18/09 11:42 AM
He will come back to you and ask for another chance. He will promise he adores you, was wrong to mistreat you, and that he is an idiot. My advice? Invite him over, have at it for a few hours, then get him up and kick his azz out. Tell him you never want to see him again or hear from him at all. If he gets mad or wants to talk about it, just suggest he text his other lover.

Then never ever see him or talk to him again.