Yeah I have a bad feeling..but everything is great when we are together..seems like when we are apart it goes downhill..He is hard to talk to and we don't discuss a lot of personal stuff. Wish I didn't have feelings going on and it wouldn't be a hard decision to make..

OMG you're dating my ex! best of luck to you

OK, that's twice you've made me laugh this week!! One more and you can join my team!

I'm in a relationship and having a lot of trouble with communication with this man. He lives a couple hours from me so I only see him once a week..we talk by texting mainly. We may go a couple days without talking and then he will text me out of the blue..I have came to understand he wants space and give him plenty.We have been getting along pretty well up until tonight..he texts and says he is off 3 days and wants to see me at the beginning of the week. So I text back and say that would be great I am off too..what day would be good..he says any..so I text back Mon or Tues would work for me..He never texts me back. After an hour i text and say where would be a good place to meet..he says nothing and I can see he is online on IM so I ask on there and he just logs off..I call an hour later and no answer..I mean I have seen that he is online so I know he is not asleep...At this point I am through trying to get an answer..
I feel like he is avoiding me and he was the one who ask me..

Now..I have no idea how to plan..and don't understand why he does this sometimes..I guess I should just wait and see if he calls me or texts..but what would make him not answer and act like this?

FYI I usually don't pursue when he gets this way but it involves making a plan and I would just like to know what is going on..

I'm not kidding! she described him to a T

awww sorry you had to go through this too..It's almost like he got ticked off somewhere in the middle of texting me and just stopped..I don't like all the texting and I tried to call but he ignored me..I can understand if he doesn't feel like talking cause he just got off from work, but he could at least texted me back and said okay well talk tomorrow or something

He has another relationship. He fits you in. Unfortunately, it happened to me one time. Those are the signs. If you are okay with that & not exclusive then that's cool. He's a player, unfortunately....

lol what's his name? I swear it's him. It was brutal. Still taking it's toll.

I have suspected that he is talking to other people because he is on dating sites like this one and I talk to others too and we have not talked about being exclusive. So maybe I shouldn't expect any better..I just feel it is a little disrespectful to ask and then leave someone hanging..

Not sure I want to play this game anymore..

lol what's his name? I swear it's him. It was brutal. Still taking it's toll.

I have suspected that he is talking to other people because he is on dating sites like this one and I talk to others too and we have not talked about being exclusive. So maybe I shouldn't expect any better..I just feel it is a little disrespectful to ask and then leave someone hanging..

Not sure I want to play this game anymore..

lol...can't name him, but he lives in TN..was your guy from TN? I know it is brutal..and it make me want to get brutal with him! lol

nope not him... but they must have went to the same "how to be a grade A azzhole" classes. They prob cheated off each other's tests.

you know the old saying...you can't get blood from a turnip (usually applies to money) but it can apply to answers. You can't get answers from someone not willing to give them. TRUST ME...I know

The more I think about it, the more I think I am in control of this situation and should just lay the cards on the table and confront him and see. If he runs, I am not losing much..

that's how I am. I put it on the table...sometimes you win, sometimes you lose. But at least you are taking control of your life.

But if it is bothering this much, then he needs to know how you feel. If it's not for him, then that is his choice. But at least you would know and not put yourself through the "what ifs"...ya know?
Yeah it is the what-ifs that are ruling my life..I hate to not know where I stand..but tonight it was almost like he got ticked off for no reason and quit texting and talking to me..He closes up when he is mad and I don't hear from him for a while..