Get out, get away before it destroys you.

Well like I said do what you feel is right but girl don't let your guard
down. He is being way to controlling. Most the time it only gets worse
never better. I hope that you see that before it is too late or you find
out that he also has a temper. But neatherless just be careful and keep
your eyes open for more issues of controlling you. Good luck!

your funeral nxthyme

he's mad I tell you!!! mad!!!!eeeeaaaahhhhhh!!!!


run away

He might be the antichrist. If you date him you might bring about the
apocolypse.

Is this a multiple choice question???



Girl, If you don't know by now that the behaviour is freaky then

>> After reading all of the post...I do not believe that he is a stalker just insecure and I am going to continue to take a chance on.

Yes, this is what we do at JSH. You give us just a few details focused
on your partner's bad behavior, perhaps motivate by your frustration,
and we fill in the blanks in such a way to make him out to be a
terrible, evil, threatening person.

To be honest, though, the description you gave -does- sound pretty bad.

Props to all the people here who sought to see his perspective, with the
least judgment possible.

carrot.....you are "stalking" me lol

Not to be root, but I'm only attracted to your potato pic.

Yes all the carrots say that

ok!! lemme understand this, you come on here ask what everybody
thinks..
THEN I don't think I saw ONE person say...
Oh!! stay with him he just sounds like a protective loving B/F

So gggeee that would make me choose to stay, you better move in with
him & quit your job so he doesn't have to worry about you..
Make sure your family has all his information & addresses.
Just in case,

If you've known him that long, didn't you know how he was with his wife?



Good Luck to you!!!

Op most of the advice is good here.


Just apply some of it and see what happens

just a thought and best wishes

See, this is why I don't give advice.

My hats off to all of you for your "expertise" advice. I never said
that I would abide by your kind words of wisdom/experience; only wanted
your opinion on the situation posed to the board. Kudos and thanks.