Particularly on this web site, and any others for that matter, what would it take to spark enough interest to get a response? Is it a picture IE., physical physical feature?? Or is it what a man has to offer you....Do you think if you do not answer a mans a email with a least a no I'm not interested this is not rude??? What about the other way around?? Interested to see what kind of conversation this will stir up... Have fun

I will respond to an e-mail either way, unless his profile says "looking for intimate encounter". Then I figure he sent it to 50 women that day and won't even notice that I did not respond!

For me...great eyes will get my attention initially. Then I'll go read the profile. If I like what I read, then I'll send her an email.

If she doesn't respond...not my problem. She has no idea what she's missing.

Thank you for your response...it is refreshing to know that there are some women that are not to afraid to at least answer back...And I can think that there is so many perverts and interestingly wierd (for lack of better words) people on the internet I suppose it would make it scary to take a step foward.

Well I like to see what he looks like
I like a specific look

If he's funny.......I'm in love!!!!

I always answer back. It's rude if ya don't I think!

i can tell 'coolness' over the internet, based on a few comments in threads.

i like the standoffish guy, the one who grins slyly, almost coaxing me to approach himn.

i like wit, and humour, and i like the guy who stands up to the crowd, instead of running with it.

i like a man who looks good but find that most of the time much of the attraction is something that starts on the inside and spreads outward as my interest and affection deepens.

Ty Tammy

When the b.s. gets too thick I go to the serious hardware & ask questions later.But hey! that's just me.

I came across a website article (weeks ago) that concluded
that women enjoy men with a sense of humor - a man who can
get them to laugh. It seems to be true (in some of my
experiences) and from what I've read in the article ... I can't
find the article at this moment, but this one is pretty close:

http://www.theledger.com/article/20061208/NEWS/61208035?Title=Men-Women-Attracted-to-Sense-of-Humor-in-Different-Ways

How you come across "humorous" in a profile is a mystery :)

Well I like funny men cause

I have a sense of humour and I need a guy who can crack a good joke and make me laugh

I just can't deal with "stiuffed shirt" type of guys cause they make me feel closed in and uncomfortable

It's just the way I am


No offense

I think a picture tells a thousand words. For both male & female. I know I look at a picture & wonder what type of person this is. And most women (everyone that I have asked) will not look at a profile without a picture (worried that the person has something to hide).I think it is absolutely RUDE to not answer anyone's email.

well, believe it or not for me it's what is said in the profile...
there are certain things I'm looking for and just the right words spark my interest...

Stone and Steel, that makes Sparks fly !!!!

I can't answer this for everyone, but with me, it was just a click...Kinda weird but it was...

I scare off women.

It's the plunger...ewwwww

Well lets see, I'm handsome , charming, funny

Witty repartee, intelligence and genuine kindness...

Well..if you sit there looking at a picture and wondering what type of person he/she is...then that " worth a thousand words " thing kinda goes out the window.

if the pictures spoke THAT much....you would KNOW what kind of person they are just by looking at the pics.

Ooo..LOVE that new pic G.