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| Topic: How do you let go of a painful memory? | |
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Definitely forgiveness for the other person and then for yourself for harboring the painful memory for so long. Once you can forgive, it just isnt important anymore... Even if it is death, we sometimes blame that which cannot be helped.
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Definitely forgiveness for the other person and then for yourself for harboring the painful memory for so long. Once you can forgive, it just isnt important anymore... Even if it is death, we sometimes blame that which cannot be helped. 
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 How do you let go of a painful memory?
You don't. You let it sit and ferment in you like a cancerous lesion until its blackness takes over your soul. 
Geez........I don't know where that came from! 
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Definitely forgiveness for the other person and then for yourself for harboring the painful memory for so long. Once you can forgive, it just isnt important anymore... Even if it is death, we sometimes blame that which cannot be helped.
D and D fan? You will be a okay in the end... for sure... admitting you still have the pain is the first step to healing. |
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Edited by
Gossipmpm
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Fri 11/06/09 09:40 AM
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Forgivness
Having a healthy attitude Not wallowing in it* Not becoming bitter* Patience Time * I see a lot Of minglers becoming this way. Jmo |
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You drown them in good memories
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try to find one positive thing in the bad memory and let that be the focal point....
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try to find one positive thing in the bad memory and let that be the focal point.... 
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Decided that painful events and memories in my life...like the good ones...serve a purpose. So like a blackboard, I choose not to erase the bad times...they're precious few anyway, really...and help define who I am. They are like proud battle scars. I embrace every day...
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Decided that painful events and memories in my life...like the good ones...serve a purpose. So like a blackboard, I choose not to erase the bad times...they're precious few anyway, really...and help define who I am. They are like proud battle scars. I embrace every day...
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I dont know that you can. One can either learn from it or let it eat them up, forgiveness is always an option, but forgetting rarely happens.
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I dont know that you can. One can either learn from it or let it eat them up, forgiveness is always an option, but forgetting rarely happens.
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By allowing yourself to feel it for as long as it lasts.
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By allowing yourself to feel it for as long as it lasts.
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