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Practice and fear and the keys to successful delivery.
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1. "What are you thinking?" 2. "Do you love me?" 3. "Do I look fat?" 4. "Do you think she is prettier than me?" 5. "What would you do if I died?" These are not fair questions to ask! They all have the high probability of starting an argument. So I sit here with outstretched arms and ask why do you ask these things of us? Hmm.. Questions 3 and 4 are useless ridiculous questions that probably should be kept in one's own head and not come out of their mouth. Question#2, probably implies a serious insecurity in a person that may be stemming from a problem in the relationship. I would pay attention when that question is asked and dig deeper. Question 5 is not fair or easy, but it is a reality of life(death, that is) and close friends should be able to discuss it honestly. Question#1 is the only on the list that I think is more than reasonable. IN fact, I like to ask it as part of a game to keep my partner and I honest(when I have one)...I call it truth or truth,,,,lol At any given time, either of us can ask the other to share our minds and thats when we can have an honest exchange about what we may be thinking ,,no hesitation allowed. |
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I thought "Can i smell your crotch?" would make your list.So unfair!
 
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I don't think these are unfair. I have standard answers to all of them.
1. "What are you thinking?"
Are you not woman enough to know? 2. "Do you love me?"
Sometimes. 3. "Do I look fat?"
OMG! You are the size of a house! Why have I never noticed before? 4. "Do you think she is prettier than me?"
Do you want me to ask her to join us? 5. "What would you do if I died?"
I'd miss you. |
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1. "What are you thinking?" 2. "Do you love me?" 3. "Do I look fat?" 4. "Do you think she is prettier than me?" 5. "What would you do if I died?" These are not fair questions to ask! They all have the high probability of starting an argument. So I sit here with outstretched arms and ask why do you ask these things of us? all we want to know is that u love us and that we are cherished by u....to be honest we want to be hot in ur eyes ,no matter how skinny or sexy that chick is that u where just peeping at.....!! if we ask if we look fat , be honest by pointing out our best features..........! this is my opinion anyways.........;) 
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I was never stupid enough to ask these things
The men I deal with would just tell me |
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I don't know why they ask these questions, but when they do I usually find something that needs to be done out in the garage.
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I don't know why they ask these questions, but when they do I usually find something that needs to be done out in the garage. 
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Edited by
papersmile
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Sat 10/31/09 10:40 AM
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4. "Do you think she is prettier than me?"
Do you want me to ask her to join us?
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Yes, women can ask some crazy questions, but they are feeling unloved, or needing attention... maybe even a bit dramatic. Not all women are like that... but we love to feel like we are your world... Well rounded women don't need to be smothered, but we do want to feel so comfortable in our relationship that we don't have to ask these questions... so tell us how beautiful we are... make us feel like you love us no matter what... maybe we wouldn't seek out the attention if we were given it naturally. Then again... those drama queens out there make it hard for the women that are comfortable in their own skin.
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I gotta chuckle at this one.
I had to steal my brother's answer for the inevitable...."Will you love me if I get fat?".... my bro's response:"I won't be around for you to find out" Oh man....I have looked down the rifle barrel on ALL those questions....funny how you just KNOW when you are walking into a trap.....I generally get real quiet and thoughtful and try to tell her what she is needing to hear at that moment.....cause the next day, that answer ain't gonna be good enough when she asks the same damned question. |
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1. "What are you thinking?" 2. "Do you love me?" 3. "Do I look fat?" 4. "Do you think she is prettier than me?" 5. "What would you do if I died?" These are not fair questions to ask! They all have the high probability of starting an argument. So I sit here with outstretched arms and ask why do you ask these things of us? 1. "What are you thinking?" I'm thinking of how your breasts look great 2. "Do you love me?" Yes I do 3. "Do I look fat?" You look curvy just the way I love you 4. "Do you think she is prettier than me?" she might be prettier but she does not have your pretty heart 5. "What would you do if I died?" I'll have a party in your memory to celebrate all the happiness you brought me. That's one possibility and depending who is asking the questions the answers might be different. Will you marry me? 
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If you treat her like a queen
and cherish her- make her feel like she is the only woman in the world - then you won't be asked those questions! 
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If you treat her like a queen and cherish her- make her feel like she is the only woman in the world - then you won't be asked those questions!
and she'll treat you like a king...
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If you treat her like a queen and cherish her- make her feel like she is the only woman in the world - then you won't be asked those questions!
Don't I wish! I am gonna need to hook up with Holly and try it her way. |
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I have been telling these very same things, or close enough to it to be the same thing, to the lady of my dreams for almost three years now and she STILL doesn't believe me lol. She has outright accused me of having been droppedd on my head as a baby too many times as a result, so yes it will take a LONG time of repeating them for her to believe you lol
1. How lucky I am to have you 2. Yes, with all my heart 3. No, not at all 4. No, she's not in your league 5. Go into celibate mourning Practise the answers until they are reflexive and problems will be averted It would take many of these responses for a woman to believe that you were really telling the truth...
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1. "What are you thinking?"
i don't ask this one cause i don't believe men do think.
kidding aside, they seem to be more of a reactive species than they do proactive. How big of a broom do you need for such a sweeping generalization?
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1. How lucky I am to have you 2. Yes, with all my heart 3. No, not at all 4. No, she's not in your league 5. Go into celibate mourning Practise the answers until they are reflexive and problems will be averted
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If you treat her like a queen and cherish her- make her feel like she is the only woman in the world - then you won't be asked those questions!
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Loved your answers. I used to think I should make-up 3 by 5 cards with the correct answers printed on them. For instance, when you come back from the hair dressers, "My, you look lovely!". When you come back from a routine doctor's visit, "Is everything alright, dear?" After eating a meal that was prepared just for you, "Best meal I've eaten! What a cook!" All of these responses will make a lady purr and that can't be bad!
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