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Topic: I KNOW WHAT THE
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Fri 10/23/09 06:22 PM
MATTER is men are scared of widow women afraid they will talk about their hubby who has passed away. Like you would.'t talk about your exes.
its just a way of life... LIFE goes on we know its hard at times because I'm one..... flowerforyou flowerforyou

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Fri 10/23/09 08:07 PM
What IS the deal with some of the gentlemen of our generation? They do seem to have their guard up. I don't talk about my late husband but in between listening to talk about boats, fish, motorcycles, former in-laws I try to squeeze in something about WHY WE DECIDED TO MEET! frustrated

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Fri 10/23/09 08:30 PM

What IS the deal with some of the gentlemen of our generation? They do seem to have their guard up. I don't talk about my late husband but in between listening to talk about boats, fish, motorcycles, former in-laws I try to squeeze in something about WHY WE DECIDED TO MEET! frustrated

ya I don't understand why they on here if they don't want to meet anyone pitchfork

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Fri 10/23/09 08:44 PM
Exactly. I don't want to sound _itchy here but most seem content to email or play in the forums only. I can get that kind of attention from a good book or Nancy Grace. sad2

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Fri 10/23/09 08:47 PM
Oh you guys..... laugh

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Sat 10/24/09 01:47 AM

Oh you guys..... laugh




But, it's the truth. Whenever someone becomes frustrated or complains everyone says to hang in there, be yourself, be patient, post in the forums, turn that frown upside down, let a smile be your umbrella, if it's meant to be it will be, the ever-famous "be careful", take it slow, whoa Nellie and on and on. When one does seemingly find a potential match they want to email back and forth 264 times. That would be cute if I was 50 years younger but I'm all grown up and I would like to actually spend time with someone. I wrote notes when I was in the 4th grade.
Whew! After all that I need a nap.:laughing:

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Sat 10/24/09 05:33 AM

MATTER is men are scared of widow women afraid they will talk about their hubby who has passed away. Like you would.'t talk about your exes.
its just a way of life... LIFE goes on we know its hard at times because I'm one..... flowerforyou flowerforyou


could it be that men are scared of widow women who grossly overgeneralize about men? or anything else in life? love these threads that blame men for a woman's difficulties in dating. couldn't be anything wrong with her, must be the men huh? i know, men do it too.frustrated

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Sat 10/24/09 07:35 AM


MATTER is men are scared of widow women afraid they will talk about their hubby who has passed away. Like you would.'t talk about your exes.
its just a way of life... LIFE goes on we know its hard at times because I'm one..... flowerforyou flowerforyou


could it be that men are scared of widow women who grossly overgeneralize about men? or anything else in life? love these threads that blame men for a woman's difficulties in dating. couldn't be anything wrong with her, must be the men huh? i know, men do it too.frustrated

If men wouldn't want to chase younger babie when they got older to prove they still had it we wouldn't Blame them. MEN grow up....I think I know I look good for a old lady young guys couldn't keep up with me :banana: :banana: :banana:

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Sat 10/24/09 10:12 AM
This thread scares me. I think I will go out and chase some Barbies.

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Sat 10/24/09 10:23 AM
Edited by jrbogie on Sat 10/24/09 10:34 AM



MATTER is men are scared of widow women afraid they will talk about their hubby who has passed away. Like you would.'t talk about your exes.
its just a way of life... LIFE goes on we know its hard at times because I'm one..... flowerforyou flowerforyou


could it be that men are scared of widow women who grossly overgeneralize about men? or anything else in life? love these threads that blame men for a woman's difficulties in dating. couldn't be anything wrong with her, must be the men huh? i know, men do it too.frustrated

If men wouldn't want to chase younger babie when they got older to prove they still had it we wouldn't Blame them. MEN grow up....I think I know I look good for a old lady young guys couldn't keep up with me :banana: :banana: :banana:


of course all older men chase younger women huh? there's not one man here who wants a classy, mature, sexy older woman is there? unless of course she overgeneralizes about older men that is. then we loose enterst quickly. you're quite a bit younger than me for instance but i don't need to prove anything so i'll continue to look at ladies older than you. or younger. no matter. it's fairness of thought that's important to me. and of course a love of men sure helps. especially us older types. you don't seemed to be concerned about being a widow as much as your age. so is it the widow part or the age part now? is there some other nasty trait we men have that gets your dander up? you're on a roll why not tell us what you're idea of a perfect man would be. hell, even an adequate man.

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Sat 10/24/09 10:27 AM
Ya know

Men really go chasing young ones

Cause

We stop treating them like men

We stop making them feel important and strong and worthy and sexy

Some naturally like the younger ones but most don't and the younger ones give them the adoration and support they seek



Just let them be the men they are!!


Now if ya gonna chew my flesh off my bones. I won't fight back
Tellin ya now!:heart:

jrbogie's photo
Sat 10/24/09 10:42 AM

Ya know

Men really go chasing young ones

Cause

We stop treating them like men

We stop making them feel important and strong and worthy and sexy

Some naturally like the younger ones but most don't and the younger ones give them the adoration and support they seek



Just let them be the men they are!!


Now if ya gonna chew my flesh off my bones. I won't fight back
Tellin ya now!:heart:


see? now here'a a "younger babie" i could chase. and my bet is some younger bucks are sniffin around her as well. let men be men and we'll throw ourselves at your feet. so anyone care to venture as to what it means to let men be men? hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm?

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Sat 10/24/09 10:42 AM
Somehow I don't think the idea behind a dating site is to bash men. Just ignore the ones you think are jerks. If they are posting in the 50's forum, then aren't they already saying that they are interested in women their own age? Sorry but I'm over 50 and don't understand this thread!

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Sat 10/24/09 10:48 AM
and another. who else loves us old fogies?love

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Sun 10/25/09 10:21 AM
Oh Jr I wouldn't overgenerlize greeneyes either. Both side goes through pain that is what I see when I read it. I think all the women on this page wants a mans man.:wink:

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Sun 10/25/09 10:30 AM
I personally preferr a lady that is young at heart, then age doesn't matter. I know several ladies older than I, that are hard to keep up with. Young arm candy is great for decoration & a man's ego; but long term? Usually they are out for security & things they can't afford. Ialso get tired of sweets, REAL easy.

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Sun 10/25/09 10:50 AM
Edited by BettyB on Sun 10/25/09 10:53 AM
I am no arm candy but I am make a good antiacidlaugh laugh laugh
I think bnoth sexes have their dating problems,has nothing to do with anything else except meeting the wrong people!

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Sun 10/25/09 01:50 PM

Did it ever dawn on the women here that knock older men for looking towards younger women, that a older man might have his future set in a way that he can pass it on to a younger lady and feel good about it.
I surely do not want to outlive my mate..So why would I look for a woman older than 57 or 60 where I have my limit set..I am quite liberal about age and as long as you are fit a take care of yourself mentally and physically,then a future is possible.
Maybe a younger lady would be more grateful than most older ladies who consider good men to be a thing of the past and to ridicule those of us who think differantly than them.

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Sun 10/25/09 02:06 PM


What IS the deal with some of the gentlemen of our generation? They do seem to have their guard up. I don't talk about my late husband but in between listening to talk about boats, fish, motorcycles, former in-laws I try to squeeze in something about WHY WE DECIDED TO MEET! frustrated

ya I don't understand why they on here if they don't want to meet anyone pitchfork

One comment on this set of posts...Yes we have our guard up..Some men, believe it or not, respect you ladies enough to not contact you and start fruitless internet connections.I for one can not travel because of my animals so should I just write to all these women here and pretend I am rich and have my own plane....No is the answer and I wonder how many of us are realists and do not pursue what may cause someone hurt later.
Give men some credit ,please!

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Sun 10/25/09 02:09 PM
Edited by BettyB on Sun 10/25/09 02:24 PM
I thought this thread was about men being afraid to date widows?
I am getting very confused!ohwell
I still say to each his own,everyone has the right to decide who they want to date, and should not be judged for it.
Some man date widows.... some don't
some women date widowers '...some don't
Some men date older women....some don't
Some women date older men...some don't
So what? I just hope I can find a man that likes to date old widowslaugh laugh

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