oh, many things are understood, that some just don't want understood, or spoken, as the guilt within creates a certain hate and distain, for anything that understand what is more important than what itself deem as important...

what is not blind, wretched, naked, and miserable, that cannot admit that it's own motive, is but tainted with self greed and selfish want alone, laced with the poison of self interest and ulterior motive but to aquire for self in all ways???

that which but see's in each living thing it look at, how it wants and can "take" from it, what will benefit and give good to itself???

it does not take a rocket scientist, to see the motive of the heart, that is revealed in each word from the human mouth...

each only speak of the code it live by itself, or it would not know the words to speak them, and the words from the mouth, decide the fate of each living thing, the destiny that is rolled out by itself...

all codes but honor, and valor, and courage, which is but caring about other's more than self, enough to admit self does not, will be crushed by the universe, to bring anything and everything that does not see or believe such is important, to see it is, and that itself is found lacking of all things that are most good in the world, and that it but love itself most in all ways and cases, and thinks all day long only of itself, and only of another favorably, if it gives to self of some favor...

such is the sour, that shall turn sour in the gut of each that embrace it...

that is what 2012 is all about...

nothing gets past 2013, without admitting it has self motive run amock, and this all will surely see and feel, as the time of smiles, will be passed for a small time, while integrity in reinstalled back into mankind...

three cents

The questions is Do guys really want to understand a woman or just want a woman?

just wanted to post four cents before David

lol...

you, you, you...

sometimes my arch nemisis, sometimes my admirer...

both is good, as you are both to me as well, lol...

don't ya know, all are torn, between selfless love, and love for self, lol...

i am way to old, to still be enamored with shallow words of flattery, only designed to bring goodness and great karma back to self, which leaves too many abandoned and helpless...

if i did not understand, i would be embittered, that you do not know what fights for you, as to speak plainly, of what is good, and tell of how it does NOT exist, be the ONLY WAY TO CREATE IT INTO EXISTENCE, as it DOES LAY WITHIN ALL HUMANS, in TRUE REALITY, if it can be envoked from the depths of the heart, where many things are left unspoken that should be spoken...

not just hoping such good things as peace and untiy and love will come true, BUT MAKING IT COME TRUE, which can only come by seeing what it actually be, to the finest detail, as the devil hide in the details, lol...

and the devil just be "bad", or abuse, or the deception, or not caring except for #1, and of course, ANY AND ALL, that give BACK GOOD SEX, OR CODDELING, OR FLATTERY, OR WARM BLANKETS TO SELF, LOL...

peace dear friend...

oh sweetie, arch nemisis, is nothing more than one that question's another, or does not simply believe all it hears, BUT, is willing to ponder it, to see if it can be proven, lol...

like a arch nemisis, is actaully one that is considered a equal, lol...

some don't want any other to be equal with them, so they seek to lower all that may speak what they do not, lol...

these are enemies of themself, as they can learn nothing, except what they already know, and of course, this will decrease each day, as we all know, to not use the brain for critical proof checking of purported facts, makes it shrink, less and less new brain synapse firing within the brain each day, until, wa lah, major failure and breakdown...

you my dear, are NOT AN ENEMY!!!

in other words, you do not give me all flattery, and have critiqued many things i have written, over the past couple of years...

that is a good thing, as i wish to be questioned...

why of course, what integrity exist, if one expect's another to just believe WITHOUT PROOF, all the comes out of the mouth???

it is in this way, that i say you are my arch nemisis as well, but then i think such is a MOST POSITIVE THING, in the entire universe, as einstein would not have discovered what he did, if he did not HAVE MANY arch nemisis, that made him have to dig deep, to get PROOF for his large statement's and theories, lol...

newton as well, had many...

orville wright as well, lol...

perhaps the one that first said the earth was not flat, had many that did not at first believe, nor give any credability, lol...

the mainstream has always relegated any words beyond the mainstream as ridiculous, lol...

not long ago, one would have been scoffed out of town, for the ridiculous notion we could build skyscraper's...

what about telephone's...

what about electricity???

all things GOOD, COME FROM CRITISCM, AS ONE OF THESE WERE EMBRACED, THAT BROUGHT ALL SUCH GREAT AND MAGNIFICENT THINGS, UNTIL MUCH LATER, LOL...

you are not as this, as i plainly said, sometimes my admirer, lol...

i can attest to one thing for sure, you are awesome, and NO ENEMY...

i have no true enemies, just people that don't like what i say, but these are more their own worst enmey, than mine, as the words i write, could never fail to create more good, in the day they are duly noted as true, just as true as what self thinks...

i would not say them, unless i was willing to stake my own life on their validity, lol...

but wait, it is more crucial, to be able to stake the live's of our dear loved one's, on what come's out of our mouth, as they are indeed counting on us, to be accurate, are they not???

how does one believe itself alone, and only what agree with itself, and think it has found any true greater knowing, as all truest truth, must stand the test of all being able to fit into all theories, and be proven as true, WITHOUT accomplishing such by simply SAYING other's words ARE NOT TRUE, LOL...

SHOW ME THE MONEY, AS IT WERE...

GOTTA HAVE PROOF, IF YOU WISH FOR ME TO PUT MY CHILDREN, OR MY FRIEND, ON YOUR BOAT HEADED OUT TO SEA, THAT YOU ARE CAUTIOUS, AND CARING, AND HEAR THE WORDS OF CONCERN'S OF ALL, NOT JUST WHO YOU CAN GET TO AGREE WITH SELF...

these type's simply throw around label's, never describing with any logic or reason, as to why such things are not true, as they cannot, so they simply pacify themself by finding a nice name, or an accusation to throw out, and think this prove's to themself there is no merit in other's words, lol...

i have never know you to use such less intelligent or ignorant methods, that children on playgrounds use, lol...

your are the best

what is this now...

the 6th cent, lol...

lol...

outta here for now...

and YES, it does mean i like YOU, as i LIKE EVERYONE ON THIS FORUM!!!

they are all part of my family, as far as i am concerned about it, and whether any think that of me or not, does not hinder or change me, or the MAXIMUM GOOD I WISH FOR THEM...

it is indeed, up to each to see what is not just true, but most true, which is really just what is most important, to allow all good to actually come to itself, so i would be the worst friend, to not care, which is to not speak...

nine cent, lol...

peace outta...

what???

is this like fishing in a fish pond, telling of which bait to use???

if a man wish to understand a women, to "possess" a women, for his perosnal satisfaction, looking to be worshipped by a women, he shall learn nothing but how to manipulate, coerce, entice, decieve, abuse, all things but himself, but even doing this, will abuse himself, as he will never be content with himself, nor anything outside of himself, as he has not yet learned what he was sent to planet earth to learn???

to love something besides himself, more than himself???

how can one love two master's, itself, and another???

it is a conflict of interest, an ulterior motive created within oneself, is it not???

if a man even cares for something, more than for what he "wants",
he will want to hear, not to achieve for "self", but rather to be a women's helper, her friend, as what more is a friend, than one who has agenda, but entirely lay's it aside, for the sake of the VALUE, that he see's another to be of???

no man that wishes to be loved, will hear the honest words telling of how he does not love, told to him by a women, as he will be too busy conspiring in his heart with wishes, whims, and wants and even coming to demands, to be loved...

one cent

Peccy...You was very bored Never try to work out what goes on in a girls head your a guy so you have the same chance as my shrink!! Anna x

Step #4 Stay away from women on the net

That may sound impossible to do, but really, it's not calculus or anything. Take these three simple steps and you will be fine.

Step One: First you have to know that everything she tells you is for a reason. Listen close, there may be a quiz later. Let her know that you are hanging on her every word. Base your questions on what she is telling you. As she is sharing a story or an experience, ask probing questions, not the average yeah or naw. It turns women off if they are talking to you on the net and can't hold a conversation or use one or two word responses.


Step Two: Never bring up sex. Women are hit on with sleazy lines and sexual innuendos all the time "But mine are good!" you say. Believe me, no matter how good you think they are, they still deal with sex and most women are tired of hearing it.

Step Three: If you really want to get their attention, understand the things that they are NOT saying are just as important as what they are telling you. I promise, if you start figuring out things without them having to spoon feed you every response, things will start to click with faster for the two of you.

Will this method guarantee you success? There are no guarantees, but by the end of the conversation you should have a better idea about this woman and if you want to pursue them.

Hummmmmm tooo bad that those that give the advice don't use it in real life..............

That may sound impossible to do, but really, it's not calculus or anything. Take these three simple steps and you will be fine.

Step One: First you have to know that everything she tells you is for a reason. Listen close, there may be a quiz later. Let her know that you are hanging on her every word. Base your questions on what she is telling you. As she is sharing a story or an experience, ask probing questions, not the average yeah or naw. It turns women off if they are talking to you on the net and can't hold a conversation or use one or two word responses.


Step Two: Never bring up sex. Women are hit on with sleazy lines and sexual innuendos all the time "But mine are good!" you say. Believe me, no matter how good you think they are, they still deal with sex and most women are tired of hearing it.

Step Three: If you really want to get their attention, understand the things that they are NOT saying are just as important as what they are telling you. I promise, if you start figuring out things without them having to spoon feed you every response, things will start to click with faster for the two of you.

Will this method guarantee you success? There are no guarantees, but by the end of the conversation you should have a better idea about this woman and if you want to pursue them.

That looks too technical, I'm glad I really don't care.

Fear, last I knew you had a woman... or is that old news?

Step One: First you have to know that everything she tells you is for a reason. Listen close, there may be a quiz later. Let her know that you are hanging on her every word. Base your questions on what she is telling you. As she is sharing a story or an experience, ask probing questions, not the average yeah or naw. It turns women off if they are talking to you on the net and can't hold a conversation or use one or two word responses.

Step Two: Never bring up sex. Women are hit on with sleazy lines and sexual innuendos all the time "But mine are good!" you say. Believe me, no matter how good you think they are, they still deal with sex and most women are tired of hearing it.

Step Three: If you really want to get their attention, understand the things that they are NOT saying are just as important as what they are telling you. I promise, if you start figuring out things without them having to spoon feed you every response, things will start to click with faster for the two of you.