WHAT MAKES A WOMAN UNAPROCHABLE TO YOU. HHMMMMM???????



You all can help me out here on this one
cause I deal with this constantly, you would be surprised how often women shy away when they find out what you do for a living that not actualy REQUIRES but suggests a reclusive life style like mine.
Peaked your interest? read my profile... have a great day

There's a very easy answer to this one.

Ego.

Plain and simple.

If the guy actually succeeds where the last three ( or five, or ten ) didn't it's a big time ego boost.

It may intimidate some men but certainly not all. There are many men out now looking for a free ride. I have worked with quite a few women that even married this type then after the marriage the men quit working.
A big deal now are men that state they want to be "stay at home dads".
This might be appropriate in some cases but I think it is an excuse for the man to simple stay at home.

no women is every unaproachable..... some are just hard to aproach.

and why is that?

all women are hard for me to approach, i just don't know what to say with out sounding like a creep so i don't anything at all.

damn i sounded like wally cleaver.

i'm not exactly sure who that is but if it's something bad, no you didn't

thanks for your honesty

many factors make women easier to aproach. if you have a few drinks it makes it easier. the biggest thing.....

If you have no reason to try something it makes it easier to aproach them. If you only want to talk, not date or sleep with.

You dont know the Beav's older brother Wally??? what was Wally's best friends name?

no idea

eddie haskell

Behaving in a way that says "Hey don't approach me" or "I am a stuck up biotch and you are a low bottom feeder". Connecticut for you. I can just feeeeeeel the negativity and passive energy radiating from them.

I have said it many times and probably will again but the most successful thing a man can do is to simply introduce himself to a lady, make polite conversation if reasonable for the situation, and then tell the lady that you would like and opportunity to talk again by offering a phone number or a email address and excuse yourself.

Women tend to reject men in rather abrubt ways because they feel threatened and or their personal choices are being taken away.

It is sad that everyone suffers by those who are aggressive but women know the statistics and think they are erring on the side of saftey.

I have wondered if we are fueling the hatered of women in general by being so brutal when it really isn't necessary but all you have to go through is one guy who won't take no for and answer to remember that fear.

...a woman unapproachable to you?

I turn most off. That's fine though, their loss.

It was mentioned before -- rejection. Something I, myself, have been quite familiar with in my younger years. Over time, it finally got to the point where I don't even bother DOING the approaching. Screw it, let HER come to ME for a change! If she doesn't approach me, no great shakes. I've gotten along completely fine without her up to this point, so if she thinks she'd be doing me a favor by approaching me, she'd best think again.

Once in a great while, if ever I felt like stirring the pot a bit, just for sh**s and grins, I would approach a woman. If she gave me the typical turned-up nose and walked away, I'd call after her, "Hey, you shouldn't be so picky. I wasn't."

Nothing. If i want to approach a person, i'm usually there far before they realize it, watching and observing. I never interfere. they are usually startled when they finally are aware of my presence. This goes for animals too. The looks on their faces? priceless!

In my experience, men have told me that they have been nervous to approach, because I look "well put together", or they think I must have a man already.


It can be intimidating when you exude confidence, look business professional, or well dressed.


Because so many men have to have it left up to them to approach, it is a point of nervousness to begin with, and they have to look for signs.


Noone likes rejection, and men get it often when they approach.


Often, we may even be way interested but dont show it, we just expect them to approach, so Id imagine, any woman can be seen as "unapproachable".