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Topic: Pizzed off.
TkJasmine's photo
Thu 10/15/09 10:21 PM
I left a comment on some guy journal, he emailed me. We were sending emails, long emails for 3 weeks. All of a sudden he turns cold and I know that it is over. We were talking as friends.
I opened my heart to him with trust, he just turned cold.
I would think that a real friend would simply say, I had a great time talking to you but I want to move on, take a good care and much luck.
What do you think?
Is it better to just disconnect?
Pizzed off.

JustAGuy2112's photo
Thu 10/15/09 10:29 PM
Meh. It happens.

Nothing to really be " pissed off " about. Mildly irritated...sure.

Pissed off...nope.

Be who you are. Tis all you can really do. If someone appreciates that, great.

If not. It's their problem. not yours.

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Thu 10/15/09 10:34 PM

Meh. It happens.

Nothing to really be " pissed off " about. Mildly irritated...sure.

Pissed off...nope.

Be who you are. Tis all you can really do. If someone appreciates that, great.

If not. It's their problem. not yours.



So true, happens all the time, I tend to call it "flaking".

Hello and welcome by the way. flowerforyou

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Thu 10/15/09 10:35 PM
ohwell hum some people just can't communicate well...its a bit disappointing but don't get too mad over this. He's dumb, you saw it as friends and he probably thought you were all interesting in him.

msharmony's photo
Thu 10/15/09 10:35 PM

I left a comment on some guy journal, he emailed me. We were sending emails, long emails for 3 weeks. All of a sudden he turns cold and I know that it is over. We were talking as friends.
I opened my heart to him with trust, he just turned cold.
I would think that a real friend would simply say, I had a great time talking to you but I want to move on, take a good care and much luck.
What do you think?
Is it better to just disconnect?
Pissed off.



In a word, YES. same thing has happened to me since joining,,learn the lesson from it and move on.

writer_gurl's photo
Thu 10/15/09 11:16 PM
Tell him he is a frigid SOB and punch him in the faceflowerforyou

msdestinbooty's photo
Thu 10/15/09 11:24 PM
I hate when that crap happens!!

earthytaurus76's photo
Thu 10/15/09 11:26 PM
o yeah, bizarro world.

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 10/15/09 11:36 PM

I left a comment on some guy journal, he emailed me. We were sending emails, long emails for 3 weeks. All of a sudden he turns cold and I know that it is over. We were talking as friends.
I opened my heart to him with trust, he just turned cold.
I would think that a real friend would simply say, I had a great time talking to you but I want to move on, take a good care and much luck.
What do you think?
Is it better to just disconnect?
Pissed off.
smile2 its weirdsmile2

OneMind's photo
Thu 10/15/09 11:47 PM

I left a comment on some guy journal, he emailed me. We were sending emails, long emails for 3 weeks. All of a sudden he turns cold and I know that it is over. We were talking as friends.
I opened my heart to him with trust, he just turned cold.
I would think that a real friend would simply say, I had a great time talking to you but I want to move on, take a good care and much luck.
What do you think?
Is it better to just disconnect?
Pissed off.


Judging only by what you've told us, and assuming that what you've told us is all the information we need, I'd say you have PLENTY to be pissed off about. My recommendation, for what it's worth, is be pissed for a little while (it's an important part of the healing process to go through and really FEEL your feelings), then move on. He's a heel and he's taken up too much of your time already.

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 10/15/09 11:49 PM
:smile: Dude might have been married:smile:

writer_gurl's photo
Fri 10/16/09 12:51 AM

:smile: Dude might have been married:smile:

Might explain the frigidnesslaugh laugh laugh

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Fri 10/16/09 01:25 AM

:smile: Dude might have been married:smile:


Yep, it happens a lot.

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Fri 10/16/09 01:50 AM

I left a comment on some guy journal, he emailed me. We were sending emails, long emails for 3 weeks. All of a sudden he turns cold and I know that it is over. We were talking as friends.
I opened my heart to him with trust, he just turned cold.
I would think that a real friend would simply say, I had a great time talking to you but I want to move on, take a good care and much luck.
What do you think?
Is it better to just disconnect?
Pissed off.


I talked to a guy for over a year and one day he stopped talking to me. It happens. Don't let it bother you.flowerforyou

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Fri 10/16/09 06:12 AM
Edited by CyPoet on Fri 10/16/09 06:29 AM


:smile: Dude might have been married:smile:

Might explain the frigidnesslaugh laugh laugh

laugh :tongue: laugh drinker


franshade's photo
Fri 10/16/09 06:14 AM
Edited by franshade on Fri 10/16/09 06:14 AM
find the positive, better being pissed off than being pissed on (unless you're into that) :laughing:

hello and welcome

dont waste any energy looking for explanations
let it go


Lilypetal's photo
Fri 10/16/09 06:14 AM
He's not worth the effort of anger!

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Fri 10/16/09 07:02 AM
This cannot happen if their real with you as a friend! Only if they feel nothing for peoples feelings.

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Fri 10/16/09 07:11 AM
I had a friend here for a year, talked by mail and phone,weekly. She stayed here. But stopped all with me? No clues as to why? Its been now over 2 years. And i still wonder why? Wink. People?

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Fri 10/16/09 04:40 PM


Meh. It happens.

Nothing to really be " pissed off " about. Mildly irritated...sure.

Pissed off...nope.

Be who you are. Tis all you can really do. If someone appreciates that, great.

If not. It's their problem. not yours.



So true, happens all the time, I tend to call it "flaking".

Hello and welcome by the way. flowerforyou


exactly

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