what is beautiful to one person is not to another...
something has to attract us to that person--

what joyce said..........

Way to go, Joyce. I agree with what you said. We all look at everything differently. Whether it's what we eat, what we wear, and what we think is beautiful. They say one man's trash is another man's treasure. Kind of a crude way to put it, I know, but we all have different tastes. To each his/her own!

maybe that's why i'm not married yet..cuz nobody will marry me

knoxman your post reminds me of a country song "I like my women just a little on the trashy side" LOL

i use to date a lot of attractive girls but i always wanted to settle down with an average girl

so did you find your "average" girl?

Don't cry Kater I'm sure there is someone for a pearson as lovely as you

Thanks carebear, i hope so

I married a very ugly person. She was ugly on the inside.

What is your definition of Ugly? Not everyone sees another the same way, what one personsees as ugly, may be beautifull to another person. It is also something that is fealth in the heart and includes, but not limited to Personality, Attithude, Honesty, Loyalty etc.

Well, she said ugly, so I guess its whoever you think should be wearing a paper bag over their head.

ok, i'll go find one then

Honestly no, I would not. Call me shallow if you want but if I'm not attracted in the first place no go.

let's not get this twisted. Attractive people get hurt feelings too I, personally, don't think I'm all that but I know I'm not nausea inducing or anything....I have my issues with myself but automatically because I may workout or take care of my physical appearance I'm stuck up and someone who deems themself "ugly" thinks they don't have a chance and already starts out with an attitude of sorts. That's not fair to me. I don't judge people on their looks yet most of the guys on my friends page are hotties - I'm not sure why that is. I talk to everyone and I love to meet new people. So why is it ugly/pretty, fat/skinny, white/black can't we all just get along? Give peace a chance. (lol)

There's so much subjectivity involved. None of the people I'm attracted to are what would be considered "traditionally beautiful" at all. I guess I see "ugly" as more of an attitude or disposition thing than a physical description.

U see for me at this point in time is not about finding a beautiful woman anymore.
At this point in time is more important finding a life partner.
I agree with the fact that there must be some sort of physical attraction, but I would love this person the same or even way more 50 years from now, when there is nothing beautiful or hot in the physical appearance.
God will bless me with a good wife, and He also will bless me with the wisdom to be a good and loving husband.


regards

TLW

I agree with Lex. Beauty is what is in your heart, mind, and soul, not what the outside looks like. My man is gorgeous to me, but maybe to someone else he might not be (I can't see how that he wouldn't be...lmao, cus he's gorgeous). I've dated guys that I thought were just effin drop dead gorgeous that my friends have been like "UM, what UGLY truck did he fall off of?"

A little humor here. One of the greatest comedians of all time, Rodney Dangerfield said:
"Better to marry an ugly girl who can cook rather that a looker who can't. Looks wear off, but you'll always be hungry.".

what about a average/above average one that CAN cook? lol