Well said unsure!!!!!!!

The ladies speak the truth.
My ex lost her looks as the marriage failed.
Saw a pic taken while we were married & couldn't believe the truth.
Horse laugh on me.

yep so log as we had lot an lots an lots of SEX

Hell why not my ex did, he married me

Oh stop wanna...You're beautiful...inside and out and funny as
he**!!!!!!!!!

My ex husband was not the most handsome of men,but he was what and who
I married. I have 2 beautiful mixed children........I will say I do have
a shallow side as well and sometimes I can go for how a guy
looks........

I like big guys....does that make me wierd? I can date someone I'm
attracted to and 9 times out of 10 they turn out to be looking for a
bootie call or want me as "arm candy" which is demeaning to say the
least....I'm pretty picky.

The first attraction is usually physical but if the personality dosen't
match the physical she starts to look ugly realy quick.

People who I have talked to who have been married for a long time.....25
yrs +..........still say their spouse is the most beautifull person in
the world.

Beauty in not only skin deep.

I'm more into personality myself but if we are talking Quasimodo here or
the Elephant man we would be just friends.

How ugly are we talking here? j/k

Honestly ntil you've dated someone you don't know if they are ugly . If
they had every other quality you were looking for except physical
appearance I wouldn't consider them ugly at all...

No, absolutely out of the question.

okay manwich, good luck with that.

Thanks, but I,ve found her.

Is it not important what we see "IN" them, rather than to look on the
outside?
If I perceive a person as good, it's not necessarily the looks.

Amen to that, abstrakt!

No........... and I'm not being superficial either. Ugly truly is in the
eye of the beholder, so if I considered a person ugly it wouldn't make
sense to date or marry. I think that appearance is a part of chemistry
and I would have to follow that part of my heart.

that was an easy question..lol

Who are we talking about, the Elephant Woman?

If it's the Elephant Woman, then no.

I'd be always afraid she'd go to sleep
on her side and suffocate.

Absolutely, beauty is only skin deep! And there is so much more to a
truely beautiful person! Just because a person isn't physically
beautiful doesn't mean they deserve less love and happiness as the next
person!

I have dated a few men that had the best, personalities, attitudes,
where real gentlemen and made me happy. Even though those little
relationships didn't work, I would be happy to date each of them if
given a chance.

Hi JSH,

Ever walk behind a couple, and their hands, and arms are lock together,
you can see them sweetly bump into each other, and it makes you want to
get closer so you can hear what they are saying? That's beauty.

Ever see someone in the ambulance after being beat, and as you walk by
you see the police car with this angry person sitting in it, just
waiting to get in another shot? That's ugly.

Ever see a relief camp setup with people in desperate need, and the
people in there serving them with mask covering their faces, as they
work to save a few lives? That's beauty.

Ever see people robbing a store when a storm hits and the power and
alarm systems go out, laughing as they run away with someone else's
life, later that night you hear about a deal on a flat screen TV, or a
new computer. That's ugly.

Ever see a person who some how always manages to make you smile even
during the darkest hours of your life, you know that there are so many
other things that they could be doing right at that very same time, but
instead they spend it with you? That's beauty.

Ever see a person that greets others with foul language, and purposely
does something that they know will hurt someone in some way, they go out
of their way to cause misery for others, and they rejoice in peoples
misfortunes? That's ugly.

Ever see a dating site that doesn't care what color, weight, looks,
riches, or anything else other sites call the "norm" are, all they care
about is each others happiness, and well being? That's beauty

Have a beautiful night you beautiful people.