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I have been talking to a guy from a different dating site since the beginning of this week and he wants to meet but I'm not ready and I don't know when is the right time. I don't want to meet too soon or wait too long. We have talked on the phone once and now we only been texting. He asked me twice when I want to hang out and says he want to take me out. We haven't text each other much because I assume he works during the day. He seems like a nice guy but I'm uncertain when to meet up.
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Go only when you feel comfortable. Do not let him pressure you. Make sure you meet at a public place.
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I have been talking to a guy from a different dating site since the beginning of this week and he wants to meet but I'm not ready and I don't know when is the right time. I don't want to meet too soon or wait too long. We have talked on the phone once and now we only been texting. He asked me twice when I want to hang out and says he want to take me out. We haven't text each other much because I assume he works during the day. He seems like a nice guy but I'm uncertain when to meet up. You have to feel comfortable with the meeting, but I would say if you wait to long you may miss your chance. You never know he could be the one. |
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Let him wait... you have to do it at your own comfort level...
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If you feel weird about it, don't do it. I let a guy pressure me into meeting him too soon, worst mistake of my life. If he can't wait, screw him, he's not worth your time.
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You have only talked on the phone once.
You do not know what hours he works, do you know his occupation? I think you should wait awhile. 
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Go with your gut feeling...
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I say you should meet him. Better to find out now if you two connect berfore you invest too much time. Ask to meet in a place where you feel comfortable. You could even bring a friend.
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I say you should meet him. Better to find out now if you two connect berfore you invest too much time. Ask to meet in a place where you feel comfortable. You could even bring a friend. Bringing a freind for safety is probably a good idea. I was thinking if a man brought a friend with him to meet me I would think it wierd 
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I say you should meet him. Better to find out now if you two connect berfore you invest too much time. Ask to meet in a place where you feel comfortable. You could even bring a friend. Bringing a freind for safety is probably a good idea. I was thinking if a man brought a friend with him to meet me I would think it wierd It is weird, a guy did that to me once, they were both so freaky looking, I just walked out. 
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I say you should meet him. Better to find out now if you two connect berfore you invest too much time. Ask to meet in a place where you feel comfortable. You could even bring a friend. Bringing a freind for safety is probably a good idea. I was thinking if a man brought a friend with him to meet me I would think it wierd It is weird, a guy did that to me once, they were both so freaky looking, I just walked out.
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I say you should meet him. Better to find out now if you two connect berfore you invest too much time. Ask to meet in a place where you feel comfortable. You could even bring a friend. Bringing a freind for safety is probably a good idea. I was thinking if a man brought a friend with him to meet me I would think it wierd It is weird, a guy did that to me once, they were both so freaky looking, I just walked out.
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Go with your gut feeling...  ditto
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Think of it like this once you meet, USUALLY things get more serious OR you both go your separate way, so if you don't want to meet this guy yet, then don't. What's the rush? If he makes you actually look forward to meeting him then it will be worth your time.
Good luck 
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I have been talking to a guy from a different dating site since the beginning of this week and he wants to meet but I'm not ready and I don't know when is the right time. I don't want to meet too soon or wait too long. We have talked on the phone once and now we only been texting. He asked me twice when I want to hang out and says he want to take me out. We haven't text each other much because I assume he works during the day. He seems like a nice guy but I'm uncertain when to meet up. That's too soon for me to meet somebody but that's just me. |
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Way too soon. You need to be detective or a defense attorney here. Demand some more phone calls, talk more and get a fair assessment of what type of person he is. And then when you do go out, go somewhere fun and innocent like a coffee shop or mini-golf, or a day-date at the mall. You have that gut-feeling, then make him jump through some hoops, and be sure that you want to date him. Worse case scenario, it's only one date, you gave it a shot.
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Go only when you feel comfortable. Do not let him pressure you. Make sure you meet at a public place. Words of wisdom....and let your family and friends know where you are going and the place you are meeting the guy, but any doubts then dont go hun. Anna x |
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Go only when YOU feel ready
Don't rush it!! Maybe you should know more about him first though!!! |
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When it comes to a first meeting (I recomend at least a few) you should meet in a very public area like restaurants and malls. If he wants to take you somewhere you drive and follow him. Do this till you find out what he's really like and you feel comfortable with him. Goodluck.
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Edited by
SexyDannilicious
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Sat 10/03/09 03:32 AM
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Go with your gut feeling... i Agree 
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