It is better for a woman to marry a man who loves her than a man she
loves.

From: Arab Proverb

she shou;d marry a man she loves of course....remember all you have to
do is CHOOSE...Just choose..WILL

A life without love is meaningless.

no it ain't jimi. your life can be meaningful without love.

DONT KNOW.

thats true men are sleezy

Will why don't you stop that! Move on! Stop stalking me! There is no way
i'm going to give myself to you like that. Move on. There are alot of
womans here not just me. Besides you are annoying me. Leave me alone.
Seriously! Stop that! You are creeping me out.

Actually you are creeping me out..i am just rying to tell you you have
the power...I have found someone already..next time i wont try to be so
helpful..The power of misconception is amazing when all you can do is
type the words..you are seriously mistaken if you thought i was doing
more than trying to give you helpful encouragement...Heres to the
inability to see reality clearly..WILL

Good. Keep that to yourself.

Best a woman shut her mouth than have her man shut it for her.

Arab Proverb


kidding. a woman is best to hold back her feelings...

Hi i think u wrong. you should not hide your feelings. Why because is
not proper i don't think so.

I am speaking within the context of a new relationship. When dealing
with men with whom you are in a committed relationship, hnesty is
importnat. I am not saying she should not be truthful. There are also
times in a committed relationship where letting it all out is not in the
best interest of the relationship. Sometimes the situation or mood calls
for feminine mystique; holding back, and allowing the man to persue
without responding with sappiness....

In the case of a new relationship, men in general tend to need time to
decide how they truly feel. Feelings wax and wane and if the woman comes
on with her intense emotions, she is liable to scare a good guy off. He
also may change his feelings about her in a heartbeat if she is won over
without any effort. A man should have to earn her love and heart. That
often requires holding back. That's all I am sayin....ya want the thing
to come to a sloooooooow boil, not microwave....too easy!!!!!

Geegirl u right and funny. well yes they need to see thing for
themselves, but relationship is hard and especially new ones. I myself
sometimes come out to be bit strong. But i started to take my time and
some guys hate that! But too bad. You need to know the person and see
if this relationship will be for u.

AMEN Sister Chica!! You are precious and well worth the wait, Dang it.
You know who you are and don't let anyone talk you into giving yourself
up. I suspect it a man's inborn 'God given' obligation to try, and yours
to remain steadfast until they either lose interest and move on,
or....make a decision. Love is freedom, baby, but it ain't free.

Geegirl79. Hey, r u talking about me?

i don't think it will work either way unless it is mutual.

She should marry the man she loves, because if she marries the man who
loves her, she will alway wonder about her lost love. This wondering
will evently become a wedge between her and the man who loves her.

geegirl. I take my time choose to she if a lady is right for me. I have
her back 100 percent. I dont let no other men disrespect her. When she
talk I listen.I'm a gentleman. sex skills is magic.I dont reallly have
that much money but if i have ten dollars it would be hers. I accept her
kids like there mine. and she still turn her back on me.This have
happened multiple times. Im i wrong for saying I will never trust a
Woman again. Even so i give it another shot and the same thing happen.
What is the problem

Women don't want the good guy..They look down on you if you are willing
to doa anyhting for love they think you are a lesser person if you care
too much..They believe that you have no backbone unles you take a crap
all over them..In other words just like you and I they want only what
they can't have...It is human nature.. It is why you even see married
women looking for more...You can deny it all you like but we are all
basically greedy in evry aspect of life..That is why the lottery
works..WILL

it's a trap either way. if you marry someone who loves you but you don't
love them, you will be unhappy. and if you marry someone you love but
doesn't feel as strongly about you, you'll be unhappy as well. good
luck on whatever you decide but being single just ain't that bad to
where i would put myself in that position.