For the same reason guys like crazy b!tches... it's not worth it if there's no challenge.

well, bad boys has the appeal. They seem like a tough guy who can really protect you from others. :-)

I still haven't heard a real clear definition of what makes a bad boy? Is it just confidence and swagger? Pranks and practical jokes? Or is it something darker? Like misdemeanors, fights, carousing and risk taking? Come on ladies, you need to be honest here.

my sister married a dumb dumb and all he did was cheat on her

What is that guy doing with 'is left 'and? I shudder to take a closer look. So I won't. Please someone do and tell us, pray you.

Wow--confidence and ball's --thats a new one!

The same reason you like an exciting film but find a boring one well......
its all about taste,and the guy being a weeney-winkey-bean to scared to man up and take what he wants,so he cuss the badboy,when in actual fact he should get on the steriods and become a god-damm sexual-Tranisauras!
Raaaaa!
get in!

This post compleatly skips over the idea that all bad boys don't start out being bad boys. They will be sweet, charming, polite, generous, punctual, co-operative, mannerly, obliging, complimentary.

Then slowly or suddenly they change. Usually directly related to how dependent the woman becomes. How much she has grown to love and trust him. How far she is removed from friends and family. Wheather they have some leverage over her like living together, a child, costing her her savings; or job. Having some kind of crime he can hold over her head. Her, and maybe even his, willingness to save face, avoid shame, or disappointing parents or children.

Because bad guys portray themselves honestly..."nice" guys are only "nice" based off their own merit, I've seen this quite a bit..."Oh, why can't I find a date? Damn this nice guy curse", then talking with their friends "Oh yeah, he's a [enter expletive]". Chances are you are not as nice as you all so high and mighty place yourself...at least us bad guys are honest about it.

* ahem *

I was once told by an ex that I was like a Knight in Shining Armor ( nice dude )

I was also told by the SAME ex ( at the same TIME, no less lol ) that I can be a nightmare to deal with ( bad guy )

I am also into Distributed Computing.

I think I have all 3 of those criteria of yours covered.

Unfortunately for you, there is only ONE of me.

And this marks the 10 millionth time we have discussed this topic here on Mingle. And as such, you get a special prize....free Mutual Match.

cause we have all the money

Because we are evil....and we like it that way!!

Actually, I am seeing a new trend emerging. Chicks are now lovin the nerds. Oh yeah...it is a sign that the end of days is near, but who cares. Nerds are ruling the world now, and getting all the female booty. Hahaha!

i think that its because theres more girls than there is women in this world a girl lacks cetain attributes that a woman has like digity, self respect, strength, and a woman is not afraid to fight for what she believes in and one of the main attributes a woman has that a girl doesnt is her ability to protect her children from bad influences even if the bad influence is the birth father of the kids because she knows that his abusive behavior will sooner or later be aimed on her children.. so i think the main factor in this question is the girl in the abusive situation manipulated by the abuser which in turn is weak because if you let someone else think for you thats pathetic especialy if that person doesnt have your best at interest....i have tried to help abused girls out of abusive relationships with children and without i dont hold them against theyre will and sooner or later they go back into the fire... because a deseased mind is a deseased mind they were probably raised as a child as a product of a abusive relationship children learn from theyre parents how to live theyre own lives and as a product of a volitile relationship thats the only thing they know so they stick to it because abusive treatment is formiliar to them.... and thats why im looking for a WOMAN because i believe that a WOMAN represents strength the same as a MAN does.... but the challenge is finding one

A Bad Boy is truly the opposite of most women. His self esteem is rooted in his understanding that he can handle whatever life throws at him. It isn't about his clothes or his money or his looks. He is forceful and lays everything on the line. He also loves sex and isn't timid about asking for it. He knows that one women may say no, but the next one may say yes. So, he doesn't let the nos bother him. He is BOLD and MYSTERIOUS and keeps women guessing.

Good answer!

cuz bad guys stay on a chicks mind longer than nice guys do
pretty chicks can get a nice guy with no problem it's 2 easy 4 them
plus bad guys do show them no attention pretty girls need that drama

I Agree,i do like also date with bad guys,but if he is too bad then it should enough with one date only,not more then that hehe