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You know that special someone who you fell helplessly head over heels in love for, gave up everything for them, all in the name of love, only to have them betray you like Judas and stab you in the back 100 times? Share your stories. I am a very happy person, but have the experience of this happening to me and I think we all need to vent and be each other's therapist. Mine have rarely been "stabbed in the back" betrayals -- there was one stab in the shoulder and a later attempt by my ex-mother-in-law to have me killed -- but that's the exception to the rule.... Most of mine have been verbal betrayals -- "I'll tell him what he wants to hear until I'm in position to make my own demands" -- demands which would have prevented those relationships from getting off the ground had I known they existed in the beginning. This is one reason I don't believe anything people say anymore! You should inform them that you are now worshipped and have your own religion.  Not till I get my own televangelism show. Give me some time.
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Betrayals happen...in love and friendships and business...in every relationship. If you live long enough it happens...often. How you deal with those disappointments...what you learn about YOURSELF and others...and whether you let it poison you...says everything about you and your ultimate happiness.
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You know that special someone who you fell helplessly head over heels in love for, gave up everything for them, all in the name of love, only to have them betray you like Judas and stab you in the back 100 times? Share your stories. I am a very happy person, but have the experience of this happening to me and I think we all need to vent and be each other's therapist. Mine have rarely been "stabbed in the back" betrayals -- there was one stab in the shoulder and a later attempt by my ex-mother-in-law to have me killed -- but that's the exception to the rule.... Most of mine have been verbal betrayals -- "I'll tell him what he wants to hear until I'm in position to make my own demands" -- demands which would have prevented those relationships from getting off the ground had I known they existed in the beginning. This is one reason I don't believe anything people say anymore! You should inform them that you are now worshipped and have your own religion. Not till I get my own televangelism show. Give me some time. You know the problem with that? You can't really be a televangelist unless you have a glitzed-up wife up on stage with you, and I'm not planning on getting married again. I mean, I can do the southern preacher accent; that one's easy after being married to someone whose entire family had that accent. But -- I don't know, the whole betrayal thing really leaves a bad taste. Don't want to have to deal with THAT again. |
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Life is a series of up's and down's. We've all been there. It's all good. Live. Learn.
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Edited by
Riding_Dubz
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Tue 09/29/09 07:12 AM
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the truth is everybody is going to hurt you; you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for
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the truth is everybody is going to hurt you; you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for And there ya go! :) |
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You know that special someone who you fell helplessly head over heels in love for, gave up everything for them, all in the name of love, only to have them betray you like Judas and stab you in the back 100 times? Share your stories. I am a very happy person, but have the experience of this happening to me and I think we all need to vent and be each other's therapist. I'm going through it now. Although I wouldn't say it's a stab in the back. It's just as much my fault as it is hers. I am still a happy person and I still trust. Like all experiences and relationships I will learn from it. I have admited my wrongs and am doing my best to make amends. Chances are it will not be enough to save the relationship. I will personally improve because of it and do my best to correct my poor actions/behaviors so that I don't find myself in a similar situation in the future. I need to remember I made the choices which have put myself in this situation. |
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Edited by
A1CBob
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Tue 09/29/09 08:32 AM
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You know that special someone who you fell helplessly head over heels in love for, gave up everything for them, all in the name of love, only to have them betray you like Judas and stab you in the back 100 times? Share your stories. I am a very happy person, but have the experience of this happening to me and I think we all need to vent and be each other's therapist. It Happened, but........... Wish i would of come up with that bumper sticker "S H * T Happens" I'd be a millionaire. I DON'T NEED THERAPY!  LoL Have a Good One Bob Out |
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You know that special someone who you fell helplessly head over heels in love for, gave up everything for them, all in the name of love, only to have them betray you like Judas and stab you in the back 100 times? Share your stories. I am a very happy person, but have the experience of this happening to me and I think we all need to vent and be each other's therapist. ok try this on fro size i met a girl and we started dating the first 6 months were awesome we never had a problem but she wanted to move back home with her family so i went with i bought a house and agot us settled and once she was back into her enviroment where she knoew i didnt know anyone things stared to crumble i mean i got a job and started working to keep the blls up(she refused to work by the way) and while i was at work she would go out with her friends and do her thing until i said i think she needed to work to make things easier on the both of us but she still refused and then there was a guy at my wrk who started talking to her but i didnt think much of it at first well long story shoort she left for 3 days and i found out she was with him they had went camping and had slept together and i confronted the guy about it and her too and she said she was sorry ad expectd all to be fine so we took a break so to say and when we did she went back to hm so in that cas i had left back home and now she still calls me saying she misses me and she wants to still be with me and all but i dont know where to go from here i mean i care about her i just dont know if i can trust her gimme some help here what do you think i should do??? |
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i think you should move on............
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i think you should move on............ i have been thinking the same but it is compicated for the fac we were tgether for so long i have seen the good in her but i dont know how to get back to it so i believe i am gonna do as said and move on and see what happens |
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I dated a girl for two years and she got a promotion and had to move abroad the plan was for her to go and get settled and i would follow.
We chatted via e-mail over the coming weeks and everything seemed fine then out of the blue i get a Dear John letter (not sure if you call it that in the states) and she was breaking it off her reason a new begining without ties and that was the last contact we had. Anna |
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I dated a girl for two years and she got a promotion and had to move abroad the plan was for her to go and get settled and i would follow. We chatted via e-mail over the coming weeks and everything seemed fine then out of the blue i get a Dear John letter (not sure if you call it that in the states) and she was breaking it off her reason a new begining without ties and that was the last contact we had. Anna i wish i got a dear john letter t least i would have gotton some closure! 
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Awwwwwwww Romee HUGS for you.
Anna x
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Awwwwwwww Romee HUGS for you. Anna x 
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Edited by
Modela
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Tue 09/29/09 09:09 PM
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I think it definitely helps you grow and become stronger , although it also makes you less trusting.  Yes, it happened to me. The trusting part is hard for me and to let go of the feeling of not trusting someone who comes along in your life is hard. I still have a hard time trusting someone up to now. But that is my problem. The experience helps you learn and grow and become stronger that I agree. |
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I think it definitely helps you grow and become stronger , although it also makes you less trusting. Yes, it happened to me. The trusting part is hard for me and to let go of the feeling of not trusting someone who comes along in your life is hard. I still have a hard time trusting someone up to now. But that is my problem. The experience helps you learn and grow and become stronger that I agree. 
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Yes, definately! 2 years ago I moved myself and my 2 girls to Fl (never lived any where out side of Upstate NY) to be with the "Love of my life". We had been together off and on for 4 years. I sold everything we had, I told my girls that they would finaly have 2 people under the same roof to love and ssupport them not to mention a little brother aand sister. I moved away from my family and friends with the dream of finally being given the chance to give my girls a family. They would be able to see how a real man treated a women. He changed as soon as we got here...no more hugs and kisses, mo emotions what so ever unless he was around people that he worked with. His kids were spoiled and rude and just plain mean and disrespectful. I have never heard a child call their father aa coward. He completely ignored my kids, who cleaned, were well manneered and got good grades. I was/am devistated...I just moved out a moth ago...single mom again...how do u keep recovering from people that lie so well that they are aable to pull u in...???
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NO NOT GO BACK!!!! RUNNNNN!!!! U deserve better!
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This is a painful experience, I've been there and still struggling to get out but it's like the other party loves to see you suffer.
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