So, I pose the same question posed in when harry met sally.

Can a man and woman be friends if there is ANY attraction whatsoever?
And if so,,,where are these men at......?



Seems like the underlying game is always some promise or tease of a future relationship. Can people truly put aside the garbage and open up, being themselves, to be friends?...regardless of whether anything else develops or not?

Just curious,,

yes it's possible

my best friend is a guy who is in a solid loving relationship with his girlfriend. he isn't bad-looking, and he's told me that i'm hot... so one could say there's a weee bit of attraction. yet we are and will always be purely platonic friends who have no interest in a future romantic relationship.

so yea, men and women can be just friends.

Yes its possible, my best friend is male and there is no hint of a relationship there. We are there for each other no matter what the situation is. I love that we can confide in each other.

Sure

I have lots of male friends. More male than female actually

We are very close and they show me the utmost of respect!

Absolutely it's possible I have several !

I have male friends they are lovely but not in a sexy way lol Anna

It is possible. If hormonal zombies(Teenagers) can be "Just Friends" like I have with girls that I liked and I knew liked(like ie. attracted to) me then any1 can. It aint that hard. Somebody must REALLY want to get laid....

Sure it's possible.

I have a girl-friend who I've even taken out for 2 dates. Plutonic dates though, and we have a good time everytime.

Usually our dates consist of talking about our problems with current boyfriends and girlfriends lol


I find her pretty damn attractive, too.. but we dont cross the line. and I find it easy to keep it that way.

If there seems to be an underlying tease of a possible relationship ever? thn that's not a good person to keep as a friend.. you click in a non-friend manner and could be dangerous later.

Yep its is think i do better with the guys as friends then i do with the girls two of my best friends are both guys.

Possible=Yes
Probable=No
Risk Factor=Very High
Success Rate=Low
Reason="attraction"

u always seem to make me crack up when i read a post from u lol

yeah it can be challenging..

I want to f*** my good looking guy friends..

What's the line we use in Mass?I'm not gonna front!
Ladylid2012

I thought it was I don't know I can't remember a thing lol

wow, refreshingly precise

Hi!sweetheart.I'm pleased to meet U btw.I'm not drawing from personal experience per se but from what I've seen & heard throughout the yrs.The risk factor is extremely high due to the attraction factor.That will become the itch that needs to be scratched so to speak.(jmo)Godspeed!Cy

I have several male friends! None of us harboring the hope of something else in the future. Just beautiful human beings and we care about one another ... you know ... like friends do!

I feel like fukking

are you one of my good looking guy friends..??